This Is The Kind Of Guy You Should Wait For In 2018, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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(March 21st to April 19th)

You usually give everything and anything to the guy you’re dating without even thinking about what they’re giving you in return, but 2018 is the year of you. Wait for the guy who likes to spoil you. After dating so many guys who expect you to give them the world, it will feel really good to have someone do that for you.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You usually date the kind of guys you’re comfortable taking home to mom. They have a steady job, they went to a good school, they’re always respectful, and quite frankly they’re safe. Safe is great, but sometimes it can bore you. 2018 is the year to date the guy who has passion, the dreamer, even if he doesn’t have health insurance and a steady 9 to 5. You’re used to dating the guys who live life for everyone else. Try waiting for the guy who lives life for him, the one who follows his dreams because that’s all he knows how to do.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You tend to have superficial relationships. You date guys who your gut tells you that there’s no real connection with, but you move the relationship along because you feel like you may as well see where it goes. In 2018 don’t date the guy who you know deep down isn’t right for you. Listen to your gut, if the relationship feels off, it’s for good reason. Don’t be afraid to be single until you find a guy who you immediately click with.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You usually date the guy who takes your tender, loving care for granted. You’re kind and gentle and sadly sometimes guys take advantage of that. In 2018 don’t just wait for the guy who appreciates you, wait for the guy who understands how your love has changed his life for the better.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You always date the guy who lets you take the lead; you go for the pushover because you like to make all of the decisions and call the shots. In 2018 wait for the guy who is comfortable enough to challenge you, even when you’re attempting to take control of everything.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You tend to date the guys who make you feel unlovable. They make you feel like it’s your fault for the shitty things they do to you and the shitty way they treat you. In 2018 wait for the guy who loves you the way you deserve to be loved, the one who apologizes when he makes mistakes instead of making you feel like it’s your fault he messed up. Wait for the guy who makes you feel loved without constantly having to doubt yourself.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You usually date the guys you think are husband material because you like the idea of marriage and hope one day you find the person you can be with forever, but your idea of husband material might not align with the person who’s truly right for you. In 2018 wait for the guy who you usually write off because he doesn’t meet one of the markers on your checklist.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You are super passionate and relationships to you are no joke. You only settle down with guys you think are worth it, which is an extremely small selection. You close yourself off because you’ve been hurt before, and now you’re not so quick to trust, but in 2018 try opening up again. You’ll never find someone you like if you don’t let them close enough to show you who they really are.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You like the free-spirits. You date guys who wander because you love the idea of being lost with someone else, and it distracts you from feeling lost all on your own. In 2018 wait for the guy who has a free-spirit but also has direction. He likes to wander, but he doesn’t lose himself and everything that matters to him while he does it.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You like to feel independent and you are slow to open up, this combination has basically led you to date no one for quite some time. In 2018 open your mind to the possibility of playing the field, seeing what’s out there. Since you haven’t already found someone who stays, you really have nothing to lose. If you like the person, wonderful, if you don’t, just keep doing you. Try to take the pressure out of dating, and just have fun with it.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You like the guys who are as equally deep as they are smart. You only date the guys who challenge your philosophical views and make you think about things on a whole other level, so much so that you get lost in your own thoughts. Sometimes this accentuates the introvert in you a little too much. In 2018 wait for the guy who is a little more laid back, the one who might not always challenge your ideas, but actively listens to them instead. In 2018 wait for the guy who listens, not the guy who’s always talking.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You tend to pour your heart into a relationship the moment it starts. You’re a romantic, and you believe that love should have no limits, if you’re going to give it, you’re going to give all of it. You tend to go for the guys who are scared of your strong feelings. In 2018 wait for the guy who doesn’t shy away when you express yourself and the love you have to offer. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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