Kim Quindlen

Scorpio: While you have a lot of great qualities when it comes to love (your passion, your magnetism), you always end up digging yourself a hole you can’t climb out of. This is largely due to your struggles with jealousy and obsession – you have a hard time letting things go, you hold on to your resentment, and you bottle things up instead of talking to your partner.

Gemini: You feel like you’re a fake or edited version of yourself in front of them. You never feel like you can truly relax and instead feel like you always have to be ‘on’ when you’re around them.

Virgo: Someone who has a naturally calming presence, who is well-read and intellectual without being pompous, and who is candid and confidently frank about their feelings.

Aries: You feel invigorated, not stifled.

Capricorn: Stop looking at love methodically. 

“He always sends a physical, handwritten birthday card to everyone close in his life. It’s so sweet and endearing I can barely even handle it.”

Cancer: You can put yourself first.

“I stayed close with his parents and his sisters and looking back on it now, that just made it so much harder for me to move on. And I think it probably made me look like I was still desperately clinging on.”