Jeremy Goldberg

We sacrifice ourselves so they won’t feel pain, but in doing so we collect hurt that isn’t ours to carry.

This may be an oversimplification of a whole bunch of complex ideas, but I really do believe it’s better to upset people by being real rather than upsetting them by being fake.⁣

I don’t want someone whose baggage goes with mine. I just want someone who can identify and carry their own.

Fact: It’s okay to feel however the hell you need to feel.

But, in the space between ‘what if’ and ‘what is’ there lies a ‘maybe’ a ‘just might’ and a ‘what could be’. There lies possibility, and that’s where the leap lives. That’s where chance hatches – in the risk, a hunch of intuition leading to decision, a spark of opportunity to be brave in the face of change.

Healing means owning the pain without pushing it away.

What advice would you give yourself five years ago?

It took me a long time to realize that I am the only problem in my life.