Virgo and Virgo: Friendship, Sex, and Love Compatibility

Could a Virgo and Virgo couple be compatible, since they both understand their perfectionism and criticism, or could they just be a little too much for one another? Well, unless Virgo and Virgo can find patience and tune into the love they have deep down in their hearts, this couple could either be really great or really bad. A Virgo-Virgo partnership will be strong in communication and intellect but might be a bit weak in the sexual and emotional aspects of the relationship.

Virgo and Virgo Compatibility


The Virgo Zodiac

Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and wisdom. Virgos are efficient, reliable, good at communicating, and good at getting the job done. Although they can always see the potential in others, they can also be overcritical and picky.

Virgo is symbolized by a virgin, or a woman, which represents fertility, harvest, and wisdom. The symbol looks like an “M” with a slight curve, which can symbolize the intestines. As the virgin symbol suggests, Virgos rarely engage in casual relationships. They are modest and want to develop a strong emotional connection and intimacy with a loyal partner.

This is a mutable sign, which means Virgos can go all over the place and tailor themselves to different situations in life with ease, as long as they can analyze the situation first. As an earth sign, Virgo is practical, grounded, and dependable. They will keep their guards high and have a hard time opening up at first, but once someone breaks through their walls, they are going to be a ride-or-die friend. 

Personality Traits of Virgo

Virgos are perfectionists. They set high standards for themselves and for others, so they tend to be very critical and judgmental. They can be flexible if they need to be and if they can analyze the situation first. Virgos try their hardest to look like they have their lives together and won’t necessarily like to sit back and relax and enjoy the show — they’d want to take over. They want to be someone their peers admire, not someone who is pitied.

A Virgo man is the type to settle down quickly, especially if his partner is loyal, willing to settle down, and is as organized and efficient as he is. He needs someone who will delve into in-depth conversations with him, who will bring new ideas to the table, and who will challenge him intellectually. A Virgo woman is intelligent, capable, and practical in love. You need to develop a deep, emotional connection with her before she will consider making you a permanent part of her life. She might seem like she gets upset over small things, but this is because she notices the little details. Don’t lie! Communication is key.

Virgo: Moon, Rising, and Venus Signs

In astrology, every person has an astrology sign in the moon, rising, and Venus placements of their zodiac chart. Your moon represents your inner self, your rising is how people see you when they first meet you, and Venus represents love and beauty.

If your moon is in Virgo, you’re passionate about people and things but will want to analyze it all to make sure it’s worth being invested in. You’ll break things down until you get to the good, useful stuff. You’re a loyal friend and a great team member who strives for balance, stability, and routine.

If your Venus is in Virgo, you are very nurturing and devoted in love. However, you’re not the best at showing you care–you’re not big on grand, romantic gestures. Instead, you’ll show your commitment and loyalty. If you nag your partner about something, that’s your way of caring about others and wanting the best for them. 

If your rising is in Virgo, you come across to people as an organized perfectionist. You’re hyper-aware of your surroundings and the moves you make. If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, your body will react accordingly–nerves, stomach ache (which makes sense because the Virgo symbol represents the intestines!) 

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Virgo and Virgo Compatibility: Friendship

Since Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, it’s safe to say that they are very good at that. In any relationship, friendship, or partnership, Virgo will enjoy talking and giving opinions and criticism to their friends, family, coworkers, and someone they’re dating, even if the other person didn’t ask for it. Two Virgos get along and understand each other perfectly. Virgo and Virgo are quite good at interpreting each other’s words and actions.

Virgo and Virgo make pleasant and harmonious friends. They are both hardworking, logical, and loyal. Both signs enjoy the pleasures of life, and with their determination and financial security, it will be easy for them to achieve all that they want They’re both very organized, so whether they’re roommates or business partners, things are always tidy. As a mutable sign with the earth element, they are great at preparing for change. They are a good match with anyone who understands their put-togetherness and who strives to be just the same.

However, Virgo and Virgo will have to watch out for control issues in their friendship. Both signs are obsessed with perfection and controlling a situation. Virgo and Virgo might disagree with one another at times, but they’re both smart enough to settle things and move on. The more they work together and work on patience, the stronger their bond could be.

Virgo and Virgo Compatibility: Sex and Love

Virgo wants a partner who has a similar way of communicating because if not, they’ll get anxious and feel as if they’re being left in the dark. In comparison with the other zodiac signs, Virgo communication skills are unmatched. They are eloquent, smart, and constantly evaluating someone’s words. If they’re on a date with someone who can’t get on that same level and who might be boring, they will make a point to distance themselves from them. Two Virgos dating is an interesting match — they will deeply value the importance of details but that will ultimately lead them to separation (slightly) because they will spend time (too much, in fact) focusing on things that don’t matter.

Virgo is the type of person who cares a lot, and they want a partner who will appreciate their critical nature because they know they care a lot. Virgo’s criticism and (sometimes) harsh words could create a bit of a distance in a relationship: their partner will feel as if they can’t meet Virgo’s standards and level of perfection unless they actually put in an effort. However, if it’s a relationship between two critical Virgos, they will definitely understand one another’s ways of thinking and pushing because they do it too.

When it comes to intimacy and being behind closed doors, Virgo and Virgo will have a hard time enjoying sex, just because their critical side will jump out. Passion and fire might lack in their sex life because they will spend time searching for faults in themselves or their partner. Virgo is more rational than emotional, so when it comes to sexual and emotional intimacy, Virgo lacks. The biggest problem between a Virgo and Virgo couple is keeping the sexual fire alive between them. If Virgo and Virgo want their relationship to work, they will need to relax and make necessary changes.

Virgo and Virgo: Relationship Compatibility

Virgo man + Virgo woman

Both the Virgo man and the Virgo woman lack charm and passion, so that will be a major fault in their intimacy. However, communication will be quite strong, in all aspects of their relationship: in sex and in friendship and as a support system. So when they reach those obstacles of criticism and anxiety, they just have to talk things out.

Virgo woman + Virgo woman

The compatibility between these two Virgos is pretty average. She is scared of love and will come across as shy, but when she loves, she will be caring and loyal. She’s also very modest, so she won’t really tune into her sensual nature. She will express her love in a way she knows how: cleaning, cooking, and taking care of you.

Virgo man + Virgo man

Is this Virgo couple compatible? Well, Virgo will be quite comfortable with another Virgo in their presence. In fact, a Virgo and Virgo pair will be initially attracted to one another — it will be love at first sight. Virgo needs to be in a relationship with someone who is stable, secure, and who can ease their anxieties and make them feel as if they are free to wholeheartedly be themselves.

About the author

January Nelson

January Nelson

January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. She writes about astrology, games, love, relationships, and entertainment. January graduated with an English and Literature degree from Columbia University.