It’s okay if you’re not over your ex yet. Every heart heals differently. You don’t have to rush.

It’s okay if you aren’t over your ex yet — but this is the reason you might feel like you should be over them by now:

Aries

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because it’s not like they treated you all that well in the first place.

Taurus

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because it’s been a long time since the two of you parted ways.

Gemini

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because they’re already in a new relationship.

Cancer

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because they clearly weren’t right for you anyway.

Leo

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because you’ve found other people who fit you better.

Virgo

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because it’s not like the relationship was that serious in the first place.

Libra

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because you haven’t even seen them in forever.

Scorpio

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because you’re not the same person you were when you fell for them.

Sagittarius

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because your standards are higher now.

Capricorn

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because they’ve already forgotten about you.

Aquarius

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because so much time has passed since you’ve had your heart broken.

Pisces

You feel like you should be over your ex by now because your friends keep pressuring you to put yourself out there and find someone new.