Gemini is often striving to integrate socially while also striving to break away from societal authority. Despite being very outspoken, they are not the most rebellious sign. They simply revel in their individuality, and value their own personal freedom above everything else. When they need to be around others, they will make that happen; and when they need to get away, they will cater to that. They live through both extremes. Geminis are very excitable when it comes to change because they tend to bore easily. They will always prefer to search for excitement rather than stay home on a weekend and enjoy simple pleasures.
Gemini’s absolutely love going out and looking for trouble to get in with a pair of really good friends. To them, trouble means adventure, and daring innovation. They consider searching for a little excitement will lead to a lot of fun, and many amazing stories to recount when they reveal the escapades to others who were unable to join them.
Geminis are full of nervous energy, and are always trying to burn it off. Therefore, they are attracted to activities that produce a sense of exaltation within them. If they could fly they would. Instead, Geminis focus on travel, and many forms of travel appeal to them. They love bikes, skates, cars and motorcycles, though they get bored of long road trips. Geminis need a constant change of pace and direction.
The Gemini is known to be the diversifier in its group of friends. They liven up every social situation with their very vibrant personality, and their flow of ideas. However, their leadership comes with absolutely no accepted responsibility or obligation or loyalty to the group they choose to spend their time with. Geminis are very non attached creatures, and will always go where the fun is.
How To Attract Them
If you want to attract a Gemini, dress to impress. They love a sharp fashion sense and are always checking out those who take care of themselves physically. Their own physical appearances say a lot about them, so they are often attracted to a partner that cares just as much about what image they are projecting.
How To Know If They Like You
If a Gemini likes you, they will not stop talking to you. They will ask questions, make conversation, and keep the momentum going. It is often said that a Gemini tells you that they like you with their eyes — they will be absorbed by you, and will stare deeply at you. Though they will try to play it cool, if a Gemini is paying more attention to you than others, you can be sure that they like you. The usually don’t waste time with people who do not intrigue them. They will be touchy, and will often whisk you off of your feet when you least expect it. However, you must be wary of the Gemini. They are known players, often leading people on for the fun and adventure of it all.
How They Are In A Relationship
Dating a Gemini is a thrilling experience. They are full of fun, and always up for learning and gaining the most out of every situation. They are natural born flirts, and the banter with them will keep you on your toes and laughing for the duration of your relationship. However, when they do choose you, know that they have chosen you for a reason. A Gemini does not get into a relationship until they have met their match intellectually and energetically. They have had plenty of practice, and they are known to get around, so when they do settle down, they are very self assured and absolutely compelled by their choice. In order to stay happy in a relationship, a Gemini needs change, stimulation and excitement. If you can give that to one, they will be yours for life.
Who They Would Be Most Compatible With
A Gemini is thoughtful, very charming, compelling and quite dreamy. They need a match who is as deep as they are someone who will cater to their love of knowledge and conversation. They like free thinkers, and people who respect them. An Aquarius will not be afraid of meeting them in their depths, while stimulating the dreamy conversation and an insightful lifestyle. Together, the Gemini and the Aquarius would thrive as a true meeting of the minds.
Their Ideal Date
A Gemini is thirsty for knowledge. They always want to learn new things. An ideal date would stimulate this aspect of their personality. Take them out to watch the premiere of a new documentary, and then afterwards plan to go for drinks so you can chat about everything you noticed and absorbed from the film. They will be stimulated the whole night.
How They Are In The Bedroom
A Gemini will always shake it up in the bedroom. You will never know what is coming next. They adore having their arms and their thighs touched. They are all over the place in regards to their sexual style, ranging from making love to you to being absolute filthy animals underneath the sheets. Expect an adventure if you choose to sleep with a Gemini.
How They Deal With Heartbreak
A Gemini will act like they do not care when their heart is broken. They will never take on any responsibility for the ending of the companionship, and will always blame the other person for being unworthy, ill-equipped. This stems from their extremely superficial and prideful personality. They will likely set out to find someone better for them, searching for the next upgrade they can sink their teeth into instead of coping emotionally.
How They Are As Friends
A Gemini is often considered to be the social connector in the group. They bring together a lot of different people, merging different friendship cliques and creating inclusive companionships. Whenever a Gemini is around, there will always be laughter and fun. However, a Gemini can be an extremely flaky friend, and they will never commit to a plan because they are always worried that something better will come up. Though they have large circles of friends, if a Gemini calls you their best friend, you can be sure that you are one of very few close people in their life.
How To Gain Their Respect
A Gemini will respect you if you are well spoken, well dressed, and if you have a wit to you. They appreciate banter and think that those who can shell it out are intelligent and superior to those who cant.
How They Are When They’re Mad
A Gemini is the most talkative sign in the Zodiac, so it comes as no surprise that they tend to get mad and dish out their anger in the form of screaming, shouting, and cursing. They know how to break someone down using words, and they will not hesitate to do so. When you get the other side of an angry Gemini, they can be levelheaded and calm, using extremely mean and cutting language to almost passively hurt you deeply. They always go right for the jugular. If you judge a Gemini, or if you tell them what to do, expect to get verbally assaulted.
How They Are When They’re Sad
When sad, a Gemini gets very quiet. However, inside their mind is racing, as they completely consume themselves in a bout of overthinking. They absolutely hate being sad, and refuse to allow themselves to feel morose, often disassociating and detaching in order to forget about their sensitivities.
Simple Things That Make An Gemini Happy
It’s quite simple — a Gemini is happy when they are validated, especially on an emotional level. They love knowing that their input is appreciated.
At Their Best
At their best, a Gemini is strongly adaptable and resourceful. They are always good at what they put their mind to, and they are ridiculously intelligent. They are so much fun, and they inspire people to live their lives to the fullest.
At Their Worst
At their worst, a Gemini is often all over the place. They can be scatter-brained, and often won’t correct themselves if they do happen to make mistakes. They will never apologize, and will shout if someone calls them out for being a little hardened to judgement.
What They Fear The Most
The main facet of any Gemini personality is expression. Therefore, they often fear not being able to express themselves fully. They are scared that they will be blocked from following their passions, and often worry that they aren’t as talented or intelligent as they think they are.
A Gemini loves intellectual, stimulating work. They work best in fast paced, high pressured environments where they will be required to work on many different things. A job that requires a Gemini to travel or network will be perfect for the constantly adventuring and social twin. They would make great stockbrokers, architects and teachers.
Likely Health Concerns
The Gemini in your life is rule by their lungs and their respiratory system. When working the way they do, Gemini’s must slow down and nurture their physical body, because they can often deplete their energy and suffer from collapsed lungs, colds, bronchitis and asthma. Meditation is the best form os preventative medicine for a Gemini, for it relaxes them and allows for them to reconnect with their breathing.
Where To Take Them On Vacation
Geminis love to roam freely, and they need a lot of stimulation from the places they decide to explore. Big cities appeal to them, and a place like London is an amazing fit for a Gemini because they would have an array of options to choose from. They can drink all they want, explore museums, look at incredible landmarks, order room service from a swanky hotel, or simply just take in the city’s beautifully vibrant nature.
Their Learning Style
A Gemini needs to talk about anything they are learning. Whether it is talking through a lecture, or talking about something they saw in a movie that they want to figure out in their brain — they need to be able to thin out loud. Verbally repeating information and sharing that conversation with others who can challenge them with questions and stimulate their knowledge, is the best way for a Gemini to learn.
Their Kind Of Humour
Quick on the uptake, they remember jokes really well and can laugh at just about anything, This sign is most prone to making fun of someone, but not in a mean way, it’s usually because they’re interested.
The Gemini loves humour. They remember a lot of jokes and can laugh about anything. They will however, never hesitate to make fun of someone. It is usually never mean, instead it is often seen as being playful and flirtatious.
Their Favourite Pastime
Talking. Literally, just talking.
What To Say To Motivate Your Gemini
You are filled with fire — do not let anyone put that out inside of you. You have the capacity to make everyone around you laugh, you are interesting, and you have an incredible energy to you. You are the epitome of fascinating.
If A Gemini Were…
A Starbucks Drink: Salted Caramel Mocha
A Colour: Baby Blue
A Greek God: Athena — Goddess of intelligence, skill, peace and warfare
An Addiction: Smoking
An Alcoholic Beverage: Beer
A Drug: Salvia
In A High School Clique: Debate Club Kids
A City: Tokyo, Japan
A Harry Potter House: Gryffindor
An Untranslatable French Word: Épater — to wow, to stun, to amaze!
A Kiss: Playful
A Teen Movie: Bring It On
A Clothing Item: Summer Dress
A Famous Landmark: The Colosseum
A Season: Spring