This Is How You Change When You're In Love, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

The Relationship Reminder For Each Zodiac On October 10

Aries: March 21 – April 19th

Think before you blindly follow your heart. Consider whether sending that text or meeting up for drinks with that person is a good idea before you impulsively do it without considering the consequences.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Stop thinking about yesterday. Stop hoping to rekindle a relationship with your ex. Stop assuming you have already found the one — because someone better is out there waiting for you. But you are never going to find them if you are stuck living in the past.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Wait. Wait for the right person. Wait for a true love. Do not jump into a relationship because you are lonely. Wait until you find someone you consider perfect for you, not just someone you think is good enough.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Stop making excuses for the people you love. If they keep canceling plans, if they keep ignoring your texts, if they keep using you for sex, then they do not deserve the benefit of the doubt. There comes a point when accepting their apologies is no longer an option.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to block a number. You are allowed to dump a good person. You are allowed to break hearts because it’s better than leading someone on when you do not have feelings for them.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

Stop overanalyzing everything. Sometimes a text takes an hour because the other person was busy, not because they couldn’t care less about you and are trying to blow you off. Even if you are important to someone, they have a life outside of you. You cannot get 100% of their attention 100% of the time.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Love is not the only thing you need to make a relationship work. You also need trust and respect and chemistry. That means you can love someone and not be right for each other. You can love someone and leave.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Do not walk away after one argument. Stay. Communicate. Compromise. See if you can fix what is broken, if you can get through your rough patch, instead of calling it quits without even considering another option.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Your person is not in charge of your happiness. You should create your own happiness and they should enhance that happiness. You cannot expect them to do all of the work for you. It’s your job too.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Stop trying so hard to hide your emotions in order to seem strong. Wear your heart on your sleeve. Allow yourself to appear transparent. Vulnerability is sexy.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

Keep your standards high. Ignore the people who warn you about being too picky. You should have high expectations. If someone cannot meet your demands, that is their own loss. You can find someone else who provides everything you need.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Stop assuming you are doing worse than your friends. Stop comparing your love life to others. You do not see anyone else’s behind the scenes. You only see what they show you on Instagram. They could be as lonely as you. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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