The Top Three Ways You Are Ruining Your Chances At Love (Based On Your Zodiac Sign)

Aries: March 21st – April 19th

1. You keep looking for someone who will bring passion and excitement into your life when you really should be looking for someone who makes you feel safe, someone you can create a lifelong friendship alongside.

2. You keep acting like a relationship is going to destroy your independence and using that as an excuse to stay single.

3. You keep expecting love to be easy and leaving once the puppy love stage ends and things get difficult.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

1. You keep running back to your exes instead of letting yourself move on.

2. You keep believing that people are going to change when they have proven time and time again that it is not going to happen.

3. You keep staying friends with your exes when it would be healthier for you to delete them from your life.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

1. You keep sending mixed signals because you aren’t entirely sure about what you want.

2. You keep changing your mind and keeping your options open because you do not want to make the wrong choice.

3. You keep accidentally hurting people who care about you because you do not care about yourself.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

1. You keep trusting people who have proven they cannot be trusted.

2. You keep giving 100% of your heart to people who give you the minimum in return.

3. You keep blaming yourself when relationships fail instead of realizing that the other person was in the wrong.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

1. You keep confusing sex with love.

2. You keep assuming that you are alone because of the way you look, because you don’t realize how beautiful you really are.

3. You keep going after people you are physically attracted to instead of people who you have a strong mental connection with.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

1. You keep giving out second chances to people who do not deserve them.

2. You keep overanalyzing every little thing you say and do in front of your person instead of being yourself.

3. You keep casually seeing people who you secretly want a serious relationship with, because you think that’s the only way to keep them around.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

1. You keep lying about being fine because you don’t want to appear overly emotional or clingy.

2. You keep ending up in almost relationships because you don’t want to lose your person by asking for a real label.

3. You keep forgiving people who continuously make the same mistakes over and over again.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

1. You keep pushing away people because you are scared of getting too close.

2. You keep finding reasons to walk away from people instead of giving them a fighting chance.

3. You keep telling yourself that you are better off alone, that there is no point in pursuing a relationship.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

1. You keep looking at what else is out there and exploring your other options instead of focusing on what you already have. 

2. You keep sabotaging your own love life because you are afraid of finding happiness.

3. You keep telling yourself that you do not deserve love, that you are not worthy of it.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

1. You keep expecting the past to repeat itself and you are avoiding relationships because of it.

2. You keep people you care about at arm’s length because you are terrified of letting yourself feel.

3. You keep lying to yourself about how you are heartless, because you do not want your heart to get broken again.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

1. You keep assuming that love is enough when there is so much more that healthy relationships need — like trust and honesty and communication.

2. You keep wondering about the what ifs instead of moving on from the past and focusing on your future.

3. You keep expecting love to look exactly like it does in the movies when that is far from the reality.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

1. You keep mistaking friendliness for flirtatiousness.

2. You keep getting attached to people who show you the slightest bit of affection.

3. You keep holding onto relationships that should have ended long ago.