What It Feels Like To Find The Person You’re Going To Spend Forever With
You realize that you were wrong all along. You don't actually have to go it alone. You don't actually have to hide your feelings to protect yourself. And yourself isn't actually the only person that you can rely on.
When you find the person you are going to spend forever with, everything changes. The way you think about marriage. The way you think about your future. The way you think about yourself.
You realize that you were wrong all along. You don’t actually have to go it alone. You don’t actually have to hide your feelings to protect yourself. And yourself isn’t actually the only person that you can rely on.
When you find the person you’re going to spend forever with, you feel a little left out when your friends gather around to complain about getting ghosted, and getting stuck in almost relationships, and going through one-night stands — but you don’t actually mind being left out. You’re happy that your biggest problem is whether or not your person is going to remember to do the dishes.
You’re relieved that you don’t have to wonder if anyone going to call back, that you don’t have to overthink and overanalyze, that you don’t have to ask yourself whether you’re good enough. Your person reminds you that you are enough every single day. They make you feel valued. Loved. Appreciated.
When you find the person you are going to spend forever with, you understand what it means to commit. It isn’t just about slapping a label on the relationship. It’s about staying faithful. About compromising. About working as a team.
You know that your person deserves all of the attention, affection, and effort that you can give them. You know that you can’t get lazy after the puppy love stage ends and the comfort sets in. You know that you have to continue to treat each other the way you did in the beginning so that the love stays strong.
When you find the person you are going to spend forever with, you are always eager for tomorrow to come. The future feels brighter than it ever has before, more promising, because you have so much to look forward to experiencing. Moving in together. Getting engaged. Getting married.
You can’t wait to hit each of those milestones. You can’t wait to make more memories.
However, when you find the person you plan on spending forever with, sometimes you take it for granted. You get used to them always being there. You forget that there was ever a time when you came home to an empty apartment, when you fell asleep alone, when you had no one around to catch you when you collapsed. You accidentally treat them like crap on occasion, because you know they aren’t going anywhere. You know they will never leave you.
But there are other times when you realize how fortunate you are. When you open your eyes and see how much you have, how much you’ve created together. Times when you are thankful for every kiss, every hug, every laugh, every breath. When you hold your person close and refuse to let go because they are your calm inside of this chaotic world.
When you find the person you are going to spend forever with, you feel like everything is falling into place. Like you have finally found where you belong. 
