She Sucks At Modern Dating, But She Would Make An Amazing Girlfriend

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She sucks at modern dating, because even though she’s been coached to act emotionless, that isn’t something she is willing to do. She wears her heart on her sleeve, her emotions are written across her face.

She throws emojis and explanation points into her texts. She will even double text on occasion. She shows her excitement instead of feigning indifference. She wants the people she cares about to see how much they mean to her.

She sucks at modern dating, because she is the impatient type. She doesn’t want to sit there, staring at the clock for an hour until it’s socially acceptable to text back. She doesn’t want to waste her time playing hard to get when she could be open and honest instead.

She has never see the appeal in holding herself back. In pretending to be someone cool, someone who is okay with their crush hanging out with several people at once instead of choosing to settle down.

She struggles with modern dating, because she’s looking for something real. She’s not interested in talking to someone for weeks without making things official. She’s not going to take things slow or see where things go. She is on a quest for her forever person — and most people are scared off by that.

But after the hard part is over, after the flirting and first dates are finished, after you agree to start something serious with her, she would make an amazing girlfriend.

She would make an amazing girlfriend, because she is the definition of authentic. What you see is what you get. You won’t discover any hidden deal breakers after months of dating — because she’ll put all her flaws on display from the start. She won’t pretend to be anyone other than the woman she is.

She would make an amazing girlfriend, because she speaks her mind. You will never have to ask her what she is thinking, because she will freely admit it. She will tell you when she needs her space and when she wants you on top of her. You will never have to guess with her.

She would make an amazing girlfriend, because she is built for relationships. She loves the idea of snuggling on the couch with a pair of books or spending all weekend in bed with you. She considers a night filled with boardgames and wine much more fun than hitting the crowded clubs.

She would make an amazing girlfriend, because she is skilled with all things sentimental. She will create scrapbooks of your memories. She will buy you gifts to remind you of your childhood. She puts thought into everything she does, especially when she cares for someone as much as she’ll care for you.

She would make an amazing girlfriend, because she has been looking for a person like you for so long. She has been holding out for what she deserves. She will never take your love for granted, because she knows firsthand how hard it is to find a good guy.

She might suck at casual flirting, at one-night stands, at almost relationships — but she would make one hell of a girlfriend. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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