Ellen Nguyen

If they don’t actively choose to be with you and make that happen right now, they can’t be right for you.

When people stop looking, they drop the pressure of being a certain way to fit in with someone’s ideas of a dream partner.

Single people constantly have to dodge curious and judgmental questions from friends, family, or even strangers about their relationship status.

You’re not alone and you will survive this —no, thrive from this —I promise.

I’m tired of this fakery routine of modern dating. I’m tired of my own conditioned superficiality

From now till the end of life, please make it worthwhile.

Whether it’s secure, anxious-ambivalent, anxious-avoidant, or disorganized attachment, each group comes with its own pros and cons.

There’s no need to rush. Life’s not a competition.

When someone decides you’re not the one for them, don’t argue with them.

Don’t wait for him to choose you.

You’ll be at the center of her heart and the forefront of her every thought at night. She will see you and see no one else.

First Born: Dating you is straightforward. You go through steps to progress the relationship and you don’t like undefined situations.

I’m beautiful even when I don’t look beautiful. Because it’s never about how I look. It’s in the way I feel, in the way I carry myself, do my things and treat others.

Rationale doesn’t mean shit when loneliness eats away at you and there’s still his smell on your hair and bite marks red on your neck.

Someone who complains you’re too clingy might well be just not that into you.

If you want to touch a guarded girl, first, start with the eyes.

You’re no longer just best friends. You’re like arms and legs on one body. You’re each other’s family and soulmate.

There’s also a kind of love that sees no end and probably doesn’t even have a beginning.