Ellen Nguyen

If they don’t actively choose to be with you and make that happen right now, they can’t be right for you.

When people stop looking, they drop the pressure of being a certain way to fit in with someone’s ideas of a dream partner.

Single people constantly have to dodge curious and judgmental questions from friends, family, or even strangers about their relationship status.

You’re not alone and you will survive this —no, thrive from this —I promise.

I’m tired of this fakery routine of modern dating. I’m tired of my own conditioned superficiality

From now till the end of life, please make it worthwhile.

Whether it’s secure, anxious-ambivalent, anxious-avoidant, or disorganized attachment, each group comes with its own pros and cons.

There’s no need to rush. Life’s not a competition.