Aries: March 21st – April 19th

Trying to control them. 

You can’t tell an Aries what they are allowed to wear, who they are allowed  to talk to, or what they are allowed to say. They need their independence. If you try to take that away from them, they will walk away from you.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Cheating on them.

It doesn’t matter if you slept with someone else, kissed someone else, or sent risqué texts to someone else. A Taurus won’t put up with any form of physical or emotional infidelity.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Talking about them behind their back.

Don’t make jokes about how they can’t cook or how they’re bad in bed when you’re with your friends. If a Gemini finds out about it, then they are never going to forgive you for turning them into the butt of your jokes. It’s just disrespectful.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Physically abusing them. 

Cancers can put up with a lot when they love someone, but if you hit them during an argument or force them to have sex when they aren’t in the mood, they aren’t going to believe your excuses anymore. They are finally going to leave you.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Complsively lying to them. 

It doesn’t matter if you lie to them about how much money you make, about how your last breakup ended, or about how you never speak to any of your exes anymore. If a Leo catches you in a lie, nothing you say can make them trust you again.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

Breaking promises. 

Virgos want someone who will stick to their word. Who will follow through on what they say they are going to do. If you are all talk, if you always end up disappointing them, then they will walk away without a glance back.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Being dramatic. 

Libras don’t consider drama romantic. They don’t want to have fights every single day. They don’t want to cry their eyes out in their bedrooms after a date that should have been fun. If you turn every little thing into an argument, then they are going to consider you too toxic for their taste.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Making decisions for them.

If you want a Scorpio to do something, ask them. If you tell them they’re going to a family dinner with you on Friday and tell them that they have to wear this suit and tell them that they’re not allowed to eat junk food anymore, they are going to feel suffocated. They want the freedom to make their own decisions.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Refusing to trust them. 

They understand that everyone has their own issues, their own baggage. But if they have done nothing to wrong you and you keep accusing them of cheating and acting like they are the bad guy, they are going to get sick of it and leave.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Being unemployed.

It’s not about the money. It’s about the lack of passion. If you aren’t working — and aren’t even trying to find a job that fits you — then a Capricorn is going to be turned off. They want someone who knows what they want from life.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

Hesitating to commit. 

They won’t mind moving slow — but if you are hesitating to commit to them because you still have feelings for an ex or are interested in seeing where things go with another girl, then they will let you have the other girl. They don’t want to feel like a second choice.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Flirting with other people in front of them.

If you are the kind of person who compliments the waitress or gets overly touchy with female friends, your relationship isn’t going to last long. A Pisces wants to be your only one. Even ‘harmless’ flirting feels like betrayal to them.