Don’t Fall In Love With a Virgo

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Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they are the most real people you’ve ever met. Their honesty and ability to just not hide who they really are will motivate you to be your true self.

They will push you towards the things you are afraid of. The things your heart wants but your head tells you no. They will be the ones standing beside you if you make that decision that will change your life. Even if it’s crazy if it’s something you really want they will help you get there.

Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they are a perfectionist and no matter how much you tell them they are good enough, their greatest flaw is seeing everything they think they lack. They are high achievers and goodie goodies. Everyone makes assumptions about them like they are trying to make everyone look bad but the truth is they are just trying to be good enough for themselves. What they consider average is everyone else’s extraordinary. But they don’t see it that way. They are painfully modest and never give themselves credit where credit is due.

Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they have a tough time accepting their mistakes and shortcomings. They hold onto the past tighter than they should and struggle in forgiving themselves. This is ironic because they will be the first to forgive you and they won’t hold a grudge.

Regardless of how hard they might be on themselves, they will never hold you to those standards too. They appreciate and will value you more than anyone. They know they are hard to love, they struggle in loving themselves, so in your ability to try and show them how will be reciprocated with unconditional love they show you.

It’s ironic because they love everyone around them so deeply and so hard and it might frustrate you as you wish they could channel that into themselves.

Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they don’t half-ass anything in their life and that includes love and relationship. They will give you their all and their best and it will be you that wonders if you can keep up with that.

Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they will never stop fighting for you. They will never give up on you. They will never stop believing in all you are and all you can amount to. And they want to stand by you when you get there.

Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they are forever a work in progress but if you can be the type of partner who motivates them and keeps up with self-improvement you’ll be this power couple everyone envies. TC mark

Kirsten Corley

Kirsten is the author of But Before You Leave, a book of poetry about the experiences we struggle to put into words.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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