18 Women Share What They Love About Being Sexually Dominated

1. “Listen, I’m a boss bitch in my everyday life. I work full time, I go to school full time and I support myself through all of it. So at the end of the day, it’s exhilarating to let my boyfriend take over in bed. It’s the one place where I’m actually comfortable giving up control.” –Anonymous, 27

2. “I have a dominant Daddy relationship with my boyfriend and I fucking love it (pun intended). Women are raised to act pure and chaste and I find that disgusting. Being his little sex slave is my way of rebelling against a society that tries to oppress female sexuality.” –Anonymous, 21

3. “I love the pure sensory experience of being dominated. When I’m tied up with a dick in my mouth, I’m in my happy place. I don’t care what that says about me.” –Anonymous, 19

4. “Honestly, I hate myself a bit for being submissive. I think it’s fucked up. But nothing else gets me off quite like it. I’ve eaten ass and licked cum off the floor for my boyfriend. There’s a weird depravity inside of me and I can’t stop giving into it.” –Anonymous, 24

5. “Nothing brings my boyfriend and I together like power play. The other day he tied me to his bed, legs spread wide, while he went to run errands. It made me so wet knowing that he was out there thinking of me tied up back home, that by the time he finally returned and started fucking me, I came instantly.” -Anonymous, 23

6. “Honestly, I just get bored with doing it in the same three or four positions. Sex is a mind game to me. Sometimes I’m dominant and sometimes I like to be dominated. It just brings the experience to a whole new level – it makes it feel exciting and risqué when the regular routine has gotten dull.” –Anonymous, 28

7. “I was a virgin until I was twenty-four so I started watching porn to get myself off. I think that’s why I like kind of degrading sex now. That’s pretty much all you see in porn so it became my normal. Maybe that’s sad? But I think that’s how it is for guys.” –Anonymous, 30

8. “I’m a feminist in the streets but a submissive in the sheets – and I don’t think there’s any inherent contradiction there. I like to be manhandled, mastered and degraded – but only with someone I trust. It’s a bonding experience – yeah, yeah, I heard it.” –Anonymous, 20

9. “I love getting cummed on or in. Why? No idea. But I honestly fantasize about bukakke. If I knew it would be safe, I’d probably do it at least once.” –Anonymous, 25

10. “My ex got me into BDSM – soft stuff at first but we got rougher as we went. By the time we split up we almost never had sex without ties, whips, genital clamps, etc. I like being restrained but it got old. The more you get into that stuff, the more it ends up taking you to get off.” –Anonymous, 32

11. “About a year into marriage my husband brought home a collar. At first I wasn’t into it but after agreeing to try it I had to admit that something about being led around the apartment naked by him got me insanely horny. It morphed into an entire dominant/submissive relationship and now we’re having the best sex of our lives. We’re even considering getting a cage for me. I like being treated like his sex slave; it makes me feel irresistible.” –Anonymous, 29

12. “My ex used to order me to get under his computer table and suck his dick while he watched porn. It sounds weird but I was actually insanely turned on by it.” –Anonymous, 22

13. “This one guy I hook up with is really into rough sex. He likes to choke, spank and spit on me while we’re doing it and I love it. The dirty talk makes it so exciting – it adds a whole new layer to sex that I didn’t even know was possible.” –Anonymous, 21

14. “My girlfriend is dominant and it’s so sexy. I love obeying her orders. That being said, I don’t think I could be submissive with just anyone. I really trust her and feel comfortable with her so I don’t feel degraded when we have sex like that.” –Anonymous, 23

15. “I’ve never told anyone this but when I was living abroad I had a threesome with a guy I used to work with and his girlfriend and it was hands-down the best sexual experience of my life. I’m bisexual but had never actually slept with a girl before. He ordered us around, instructing us to strip, kiss and eventually eat each other out while he watched. Then he joined in. I still masturbate to the memory.” –Anonymous, 29

16. “I used to lie down on the shower floor and let my ex piss on me. I know that sounds disgusting but it’s really not any more disgusting than being cummed on. I sound defensive, don’t I? Whatever. I don’t care. I fucking loved it.” –Anonymous, 25

17. “I love being my boyfriend’s dirty little slut. While I’m at work during the day he’ll text me orders, like to go into the bathroom and send him a picture of me fingering myself. It drives me crazy and I’m always ready to have sex the minute we both get home.” –Anonymous, 23

18. “My last boyfriend used to make me beg him to let me suck his dick or to come on me. It was insanely hot. At a certain point you just have to accept that you’re a super sexual person and there’s nothing wrong with that.” –Anonymous, 26