50 Guys Explain How Attractive Girls Completely Ruin Their Chances At A Serious Relationship

50 Guys Explain How Attractive Girls Can Completely Ruin Their Chances At A Serious Relationship

Thought Catalog
By Thought Catalog
Michael McAuliffe
According to Ask Reddit, this is how you lose a guy.
Thought Catalog
By Thought Catalog
Michael McAuliffe

1. By constantly explaining how her physical features were unattractive. My ex was a little overweight, but she went into details about every little thing she didn’t like about her appearance. I found her attractive, just couldn’t stand arguing about it with her.

2. Twice she made plans with me then called them off at literally the last moment for no good reason, then wanted to reschedule a third time. No flakes.

3. It’s happened with a few women, but when they’re super flirty with you one day then text you the next day asking for advice about another guy.

I get they’re doing that to make you jealous to get you to make a move, but nothing turns me off more.

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

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