Todd Clayton

Someone grabbed my arm while I was ordering a beer and told me I was just her friend’s type, and would I come meet him?

Too many religious communities, the one in which I grew up included, prize–more than service to and advocacy for the oppressed–pre-marital virginity. To “lose your virginity” before your wedding day is to relegate yourself to the margins of the congregation–shame and self-loathing your near-constant companions.

He has really nice abs. But I only know because he’s shirtless in four of his seven profile pictures.