Shahida Arabi
Shahida is a graduate of Harvard University and Columbia University. She is a published researcher and author of Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse and Breaking Trauma Bonds with Narcissists and Psychopaths. Her books have been translated into 16+ languages all over the world. Her work has been featured on Salon, HuffPost, Inc., Bustle, Psychology Today, Healthline, VICE, NYDaily News and more. For more inspiration and insight on manipulation and red flags, follow her on Instagram here.
8 Sci-Fi Romance Movies That Defy Time And Space (And Will Alter Your Brain Chemistry)
Sometimes love defies time and space — at least it does in science fiction romantic drama films.
Why Your Toxic Ex Comes Back When You No Longer Want Them
Ever wonder why that toxic and narcissistic ex-partner kept reaching out to you, long after the relationship had ended? Or why they seemed to make attempts to provoke you after the break-up?
12 Power Plays Narcissists Use To Gaslight You
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is one of the most famous books of all time.
7 Dating Power Moves That Protect Women Against Narcissists
Men and women can both be narcissists, but women tend to experience specific risks in the dating world. Here are ways they can protect themselves from manipulation, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy.
Signs Your Boyfriend Is Toxic
Toxicity exists on a spectrum, but there is a set of tell-tale behaviors that can point to a core lack of empathy, entitlement, and exploitativeness that can be harmful to relationships.
This Jennifer Lawrence Thriller Is The Most Controversial Romance Movie of All Time
I never thought that an action and adventure rom-com movie starring Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Pratt would be one of the most darkly romantic movies I’ve ever seen, but here we are.
Narcissists Target Women With These 5 Surprising Traits For Romantic Relationships
Here are five surprising traits narcissists look for in their partners, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy.
5 Toxic Movie Couples We Call “Romance Goals” But Are Actually Just Trauma Bonds
A trauma bond is an inextricable bond we develop to the people who subject us to a combination of danger, seduction, betrayal, and a cyclical pattern of hot-and-cold behavior where kindness is mixed with cruelty in a relationship where a…
People Who Seem “Charming” But Are Actually Psychopaths Display These 3 Subtle Behaviors
A researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy reveals the three subtle behaviors that reveal the motives and characteristics of people with psychopathic traits.
Men Who Pretend To Be ‘Nice Guys’ But Are Actually Narcissistic Display These 3 Subtle Behaviors
People who use the “nice guy” persona to charm and manipulate others but are actually narcissistic display these three subtle behaviors, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy.
4 Signs He Doesn’t Have An Avoidant Attachment Style, He’s Just A Narcissist
These are the signs they don’t have an avoidant attachment style, they’re actually narcissistic, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy.
Signs He’s Not In Love, He’s Love Bombing You
Here are the red flags you may be experiencing a manipulation tactic known as love bombing, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy. Love bombing is a manipulative tactic associated with narcissistic traits.
Psychopathic and Narcissistic Women Display These 4 Sadistic Behaviors In Relationships
A female narcissist or female psychopath (a rarer occurrence) is someone who hides behind a seemingly sweet-tempered demeanor, moral absolutism, and haughtiness to conceal her true lack of empathy, contempt, callousness, and condescending bullying behaviors.
Break Up With Your Boyfriend If You See These 3 Signs
Sometimes it’s time to break up with a partner who is mistreating you. Here are the three signs you need to do so immediately. There’s a presence of any kind of verbal or emotional abuse.
Signs He’s Playing Mind Games With You
Is it love? Or is it manipulation and mind games? Here are five signs your partner may be playing twisted psychological games to keep you focused on them and to have more power and control over you.
3 Reasons INFJs (The Rarest Myers-Briggs Type) Are Targeted By Narcissists
The rarest personality type is INFJ (standing for Introversion, Intuition, Feeling, Judging) and is estimated to make up 1-2% of the population.
Narcissists Who Are Jealous Of You Display These 4 Subtle Behaviors in Relationships
A researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy shares the four behaviors that indicate a narcissist is envious and jealous of you.
People Who Seem ‘Moral’ and ‘Mature’ But Are Actually Narcissistic Display These 3 Subtle Behaviors
Are they really “moral” and “mature” or are they narcissistic? A researcher specializing in narcissism reveals the three subtle signs you’re dealing with a covert manipulator in dating and relationships.