Shahida Arabi
Shahida is a graduate of Harvard University and Columbia University. She is a published researcher and author of Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse and Breaking Trauma Bonds with Narcissists and Psychopaths. Her books have been translated into 16+ languages all over the world. Her work has been featured on Salon, HuffPost, Inc., Bustle, Psychology Today, Healthline, VICE, NYDaily News and more. For more inspiration and insight on manipulation and red flags, follow her on Instagram here.
4 Mental Chess Games Manipulative Narcissists Play In Dating (That Empathic People Never Do)
Chess is a game that is all about strategy, and one can’t help but notice that many of the same manipulation tactics narcissists play is all about strategy and mirrors some of the same strategies used in chess. Here are four psychologically manipulative tactics narcissistic people use in dating and relationships that can be compared to “mental chess,” that empathic people never engage in, according to a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy.
7 Mind-Bending Movies Like ‘The Matrix’ And ‘Everything Everywhere All At Once’ About Parallel Realities
If you liked Inception, The Matrix, or Everything Everywhere All At Once, these movies and tv shows about parallel realities will intrigue you.
7 Movies and TV Shows Like ‘Shutter Island’ and ‘Behind Her Eyes’ With Jaw-Dropping Plot Twists
If you liked the jaw-dropping plot twists in Shutter Island and Behind Your Eyes, you’ll love these psychological thriller movies and television shows.
This Is The Most Disturbing TV Series On Netflix (And It Has The Biggest Plot Twist)
This is the most disturbing television series on Netflix, and it has the biggest plot twist of all time.
7 Movies To Watch For When You Want To Heal From A Break-Up
These movies will help you put your heart back together again and level up after a break-up.
4 Sadistic Mind Games Narcissists and Psychopaths Play In Relationships (That Empathic People Never Do)
Narcissists and psychopaths play these four mind games in relationships, but empathic people never do.
5 Signs You’re An INFJ (The Rarest, Most Dangerous Myers-Briggs Personality Type)
The five secrets of the INFJ, the rarest and most dangerous Myers-Briggs personality type.
7 Movie and TV Boyfriends That Were The Absolute Worst (And Narcissistic)
These television and movie boyfriends didn’t just fall short of the ideal, they bordered on toxic and narcissistic.
3 Clever Ways To Repel Narcissists in the Dating World, According to An Expert
Be self-focused and more “self-centered” in dating if you are accustomed to being a people-pleaser. Decenter your dating partners and relationships by viewing relationships as a potential liability not an automatic benefit.
4 Things Rom Coms and Romance Movies Got Wrong About Love (But Psychological Thrillers Got Right)
What rom coms and romance movies got wrong about love – but psychological thrillers got right.
8 Psychological Thriller Movies and TV Shows With the Most Shocking Plot Twists of All Time
Here are eight of the best psychological thriller movies and television shows with the biggest plot twists of all time.
5 Lessons Arya Stark from Game of Thrones Taught Us About Trauma (And Why She’s The Best TV Character of All Time)
This is why Arya Stark was the greatest character in television history – and the lessons she taught us about trauma and resilience.
5 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re An Enneagram 8 Woman (A Dangerous Personality Type)
Five things people don’t realize you’re doing because you’re an Enneagram 8 woman, the most dangerous personality type.
4 Times Colin Was The Absolute Worst In Bridgerton’s Season 3, According to Fans
Not all fans of the show were impressed by Penelope and Colin’s romance and detected some red flags in what felt like a rushed romance.
People Who Seem “Kind” But Are Actually Narcissists Display These 5 Subtle Behaviors
Kind or cruel? Here are the five subtle behaviors you may notice if you are dealing with someone who seems kind but is actually a narcissist.
6 Romance Movies People Loved (That Were Actually Problematic and Aged Terribly)
These beloved romance movies were actually problematic and aged terribly.
The 9 Most Narcissistic Characters in Movie History
From Patrick Bateman in American Psycho to Regina George in Mean Girls, here are nine of the most narcissistic characters in movie history.
3 Wild Love Lessons in TV Show “Charmed” That Nailed Modern Dating and Toxic Relationships
Sometimes the charmingly handsome guy you fall in love with is actually a demon and the source of all evil – and other wild love lessons tv show Charmed got right about modern dating and toxic relationships.