Saba May

You can’t make someone love you when they have no love to give.

Yes, love can feel compelling, alluring, and even enchanting. But love should never feel like you’ve snorted cocaine.

When you’re in the grip of the quarter life crisis, you will have two competing impulses: the impulse for stability, and the impulse for novelty.

Your mind isn’t looking for solutions, it’s looking for rest.

Love is the empath’s fatal flaw.

You have to decide if the love, richness, and depth of a committed relationship merits the full spectrum of effort and humanness involved.

She genuinely appreciates, admires, and praises other women.

One of the biggest red flags in dating is that of idealization.

Is there a formula, a recipe for love?

A strong girl will move on, because her relationship with herself is more precious than her relationship with you or anyone else.

I knew you wouldn’t be mine in the years to come. So before those gates opened completely, I let you go.

I thought time would always be on my side. But I’ve discovered that while it sometimes takes things and people away from you, it doesn’t take their memories with it.

You are wasting your time, and that is the ultimate crime you can commit against yourself, especially as a young person.