There’s no physical attraction and chemistry
Book lovers, this is for you!
Maybe he doesn’t like what you like, or he has a different approach to life as you do. But those are not open invitations to judge you and your life.
Love is something you don’t need to worry about. Love is just giving without expecting, caring without a reason, putting the other one’s happiness before yours.
INFJs are such difficult people. They live in their inner world, but they also have to deal with life on Earth.