Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

You know an Aries man doesn’t love you when he wants to do things without you. He loves to go on adventures, and he loves to have fun, but when he doesn’t want you to be a part of it, you know he doesn’t love you. He can choose to include you in on his spontaneous activities, so if he chooses not to, it’s probably not love.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

You know a Taurus man doesn’t love you when he doesn’t open up to you. When you’ve earned his trust, and shown him you have no intention of breaking his heart, and he continues to be closed off, it’s a sign that it’s not love. A Taurus man will be reluctant to be vulnerable, but love will make him cross the line that causes him to share his entire life with you.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

You know a Gemini man doesn’t love you when he seems distracted. If he can’t make it through a meal with you without checking his phone, the love just isn’t there. A Gemini man in love will give you all of his attention. He’ll make you feel like a priority, rather than an inconvenience, and he’ll actively choose to love you every single day.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You know a Cancer man doesn’t love you when he’s hesitant to introduce you to his family and friends. His family and friends are basically the most important things in the world to him, and if he doesn’t bring you around them, it means he’s not confident that they’ll a) approve of you, or b) like you as a person.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You know a Leo man doesn’t love you when he’s quiet around you. Leo men are usually pretty outgoing and love to be the center of attention, if he’s not making himself noticeable when you’re around, it means he doesn’t particularly care what you think of him, or if you think of him at all.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You know a Virgo man doesn’t love you when he’s an open book. A typical Virgo man is not transparent when it comes to love. You won’t ever really know if he loves someone because he’s so private about his feelings. When he tells you anything and everything about what he’s thinking and how he feels, he’s not in love.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You know a Libra man doesn’t love you when he doesn’t show up. Libras are always there for the ones they love, so if he’s not, it’s not real love. If he doesn’t tell you to text him when you’ve gotten home safely, if he doesn’t go to the opening of the art show you’ve been planning for months, if he doesn’t show up for the moments that matter, he doesn’t love you.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You know a Scorpio man doesn’t love you when he’s jealous of the other men in your life. A Scorpio man is naturally jealous, but when he’s with a person he truly loves, he learns to control that jealousy. It’s not love if he continues to question whether or not he’s the only man you love.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

You know a Sagittarius man doesn’t love you when he can’t talk about the future. A Sagittarius man enjoys change, he wants to learn and grow and better himself, which means he has big plans for the future. When he can’t talk about those plans, it’s not love. If he only includes you in the moment now, and says nothing about what’s ahead, it’s because he doesn’t see you a part of it.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

You know a Capricorn man doesn’t love you when he makes excuses. When he says he’s too busy because of work, or friends, or family, it’s not because he’s actually too busy, it’s because he doesn’t think you’re important enough to clear his schedule for. When a Capricorn man is in real love, he clears anything and everything for you. A Capricorn man doesn’t make excuses for the ones he loves, and he’s never too busy for them either.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

You know an Aquarius man doesn’t love you when you feel like you’ve only gotten to know the surface of who he really is. When an Aquarius man is in love, he gets deep. He shares his emotions and his beliefs, he shares things that you wouldn’t know just from looking at him. When he’s not in love, he’s on autopilot. He says what you like to hear, not what he really feels.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

You know a Pisces man doesn’t love you when he’s distant. It’s blatantly obvious when a Pisces man is in love because he’s an over-the-top romantic. He’ll send you flowers at work, he’ll bring you soup when you’re sick, he makes his love known through actions. When he leaves you hanging, or isn’t fully there, you know he’s not in love.