The One Lesson You Need To Learn About Love Before You Find It, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Jérôme Licht


You can’t save people, you can only love them with all of your heart.


Regular, everyday love is far more remarkable than passion-filled romances.


There is no such thing as “the one.” There are, in fact, many people we can love during our lifetime.


Matters of the heart will always be vulnerable and scary, but it’s only when you give yourself completely that you’ll truly fall.


Not everyone will show love the same way you will.


You’ll never find a perfect person, only imperfect people who are still worth loving.


Relationships can’t always be 50/50 all of the time. Expecting this will only lead to resentment.


You cannot love without trust.


You can never catch someone who does not want to be caught.


The higher you build the walls around your heart, the more difficult they’re going to be to break down, even when you want them to fall. Do not be afraid to let love in, even if it’s fleeting. It still matters.


You can still have a relationship and be independent. These are not mutually exclusive to one another.


Love isn’t everything and it will not save you.  TC mark

Molly Burford

Writer. Editor. Hufflepuff. Dog person.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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