How To Win Her Heart, Based On Her Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You have to accept her for who she is. Make no mistake that an Aries woman is a force to be reckoned with. She speaks her mind without restraint and she won’t hesitant to tell you what she thinks of you. She’s competitive in nature and can come across as domineering at times. She requires someone who is not intimidated by her, but who accepts and appreciates her for the strong and alpha female she is.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You have to prove your worth. A Taurus woman doesn’t fall in love easily and she doesn’t believe in love at first sight. She wants to warm up to you first and a good first impression goes a long way! She adores romantic courtship and wants to be treated to the finer things in life. Trust that she’ll test you and drive you crazy with her stubborn streak and her refusal to change. In the (bumpy) journey towards winning her affection, you should stay undeterred, as only time will let her see your earnest intention.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You have to open up to her. With her infectious smile and great personality, you find her mesmerizing and unforgettable. On the downside, it’s going to be an uphill task to get her attention, for a Gemini woman is as intelligent as she is beautiful. She loves to talk about endless topics under the sun, craves stimulating conversations, and loves to debate long and hard about any argument she’s passionate about. All you need is to talk to her, let her know what you think and feel, and invite her into your world.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You have to be her home. To a cancer woman, there is absolutely nothing she values more than her family. As a deeply emotional sign, she treats her partner like her family and she would let nothing to deter her or stand in her way when it comes to protecting her loved ones. As she places such high importance on romantic relations, she’s looking for her lifetime partner and she won’t settle for anything less. To win her heart, you have to commit and show her that home is where you and she belong together.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You have to be the one she needs. You thought you didn’t believe in love at first sight until you met her because you swear that she has walked away with your heart. A Leo woman is ravishing and spunky and you find her irresistible. Once you get to know her deeper, you find out that she’s a complex contradiction. She acts like she has no need for anyone yet she yearns for love to take her away. You have to look beneath her tough demeanor and see past her almost flawless facade to get to the real her.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You have to understand her. Still water runs deep and this cannot be truer for the Virgo woman. She may say little and appears unassuming, yet do not underestimate her. Under her calm composure lies a very passionate and sensual woman waiting to be discovered by the right man. She’s one of the most misunderstood signs, so she needs you to get over who you think she is and instead get to know her for who she really is. She shows her love through unconventional ways, such as being overly critical. When your patience is running low, always remember that whatever she does, she does it out of love for you.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You have to appreciate her. It is a well-known fact that literally everyone loves her, seeing as she’s one of the most romantic zodiac signs. She’s a huge lover of romance and she dreams of her own knight in shining armor to protect her or a prince to whisk her away from the harsh reality of life. To a Libra woman, love is everything and she’s determined to love with her whole heart. She’s also a firm believer of fairness and harmony in relationship, so she would expect you to appreciate her efforts in giving you the best she has and never take her for granted.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You have to be patient towards her. Sometimes you think you understand her, and other times, you’re thinking you may never know. A Scorpio woman is wildly unpredictable and her mood changes without warning. She’s the femme fatale you’ve fallen for, and your biggest mistake is to think you can control her or that she can be changed. She’s the way she is and you have to embrace her for who she is, including her dark emotions. You definitely should know when to give her space and to be there for her.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You have to be open-minded. Love with a Sagittarius woman excites you at every turn, and there is never a mundane moment when it comes to being with her. She’s the true blood of an adventurer, always prioritizing her freedom, and forever on the lookout for a new adventure. You become so captivated with her that you soon realize your heart is her newest conquest yet. Take note that the biggest mistake you can make is to rush her. Instead, you should go with the flow and take a leap of faith with the endless possibilities that arise out of your comfort zone.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You have to take things slowly. If you want to win her heart, nothing but your utmost effort and sturdy dedication will move her. For a Capricorn woman knows how attractive she is and she knows any man is lucky to have her. She has many things on her plate and romance is almost always last on her list. She doesn’t date casually and believes that relationship compatibility is something that needs time to build on. She’ll definitely take her time to decide if she wants to give you the key to her heart.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You have to respect her feelings. From the moment you met her, you knew that she was different. For an Aquarius woman is the most independent zodiac sign and she only listens to her own voice and sings her own tunes, refusing to conform to the expected norms. She doesn’t find love. Love finds her. She is comfortable in her own skin and she’s not looking to change her single status anytime soon. But if you are the right person who can click with her intellectually and connect with her beyond physical looks to the heart and soul, you might just be the one that she’s unconsciously looking for.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You have to be honest. Falling for a Pisces woman is like a fairytale comes alive: magical and dreamy. You just met her, and yet you found yourself swept away by her adoring affection and overflowing care that you can’t help but want to reciprocate. She’s the embodiment of dreams and fantasies that have no place in reality. She sees you and the relationship she has with you as perfection, one she has no intention to let go. To be who she needs you to be, you have to be honest about your feelings towards her and show her that while no relationship can ever be perfect, you’re willing to give her the closest to perfection. Thought Catalog Logo Mark


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Liane White

I write about falling in love and out of love.

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