“Oh, screw beautiful. I’m brilliant. If you want to appease me, compliment my brain.” – Christina Yang, Greys Anatomy
Find a man who wants you for your mind. Not your body, not your beauty, and not for your looks, but for your mind. Find a man who adores you for your thoughts and stimulating conversations. And find a man who couldn’t imagine not having conversations with you for the rest of his life.
Beauty isn’t something that will last forever. One day, you won’t have those beautiful locks of gold. One day, your face will be covered in wrinkles, displaying your age for the world to see. And one day, you won’t have the same fit body that you do today.
So, find a man who isn’t going to care about the color of your hair changing and who isn’t going to give a damn about how your body changes through the years.
Just find someone who finds your mind to be beautiful.
Find someone who gets turned on just be seeing you talk about something you are passionate about. Find a man who smiles with pride when he introduces you to his family, because he is 100% confident they will love your mind too. Find a man who smiles in amusement as you rant about little things that annoy you and when you tell him your pet peeves. Find a man who laughs at your stupid jokes that wouldn’t be funny to anyone else.
Find a man who knows how lucky he is to have found you.
And it won’t be because you are beautiful or because you are stunning. It will be because of your heart and your soul. Find a man who knows he hit the jackpot when he found you because you are kind, and you are intelligent and you are beautiful on the inside.
Find a man who listens to you talk about your favorite celebrities and who giggles at you when you scream the wrong lyrics at concerts. Find a man who holds you when you talk about your biggest fears and who doesn’t let you go no matter how dark your secrets get. Find a man who could listen to you talk all day without stopping, because to him, your voice is the most magical thing in the universe. And find a man who never takes you for granted, because he knows how lucky he is to have you.
Don’t find a man who only loves to look at you. Don’t find a man who only loves to kiss you and have his way with you.
Find a man who adores you on the inside and out. And find a man who wouldn’t ever dare let you go, because you have the most beautiful mind he has ever seen.