11 Things Men Don’t Realize You Are Doing Because You Are Falling Hard For Them


1. He becomes your favorite part of your day.

No matter what you are doing or what you are talking abut, being in their presence makes your day brighter and better even if it is a shorter part of your day.

2. He’s the first person you think of when you wake up.

He becomes the first person you want to talk to and see at every start of your day. You are always eager to check in on him, and see how his morning is going.

3. You sacrifice things for him.

Whether it’s something big like moving across the country for him, or a small thing like changing your eating habits for him, this is a definite sign you’re in love.

4. You pack on the PDA.

You don’t care who is watching you two. You don’t even care if your parents see. You can’t keep your hands off of them no matter how hard you try.

5. You adore his flaws.

No matter how annoying he tends to be, or how many pet peeves of yours that he does, you frankly don’t give a damn. You find his flaws and imperfections adorable and unique. And you wouldn’t want him to be anyone but himself.

6. You talk to him about your future using ‘we’.

You don’t talk to him anymore about ‘your’ future. You put ‘we’ in the equation and make him apart of all your plans.

7. You don’t let arguments rain on your parade.

No matter how bad your arguments get with him, you know that there will always be a silver lining. You also don’t get too hung up on these fights with him, because you know that your love is more powerful than silly disagreements.

8. You don’t get jealous.

You trust him with your whole heart. You don’t care if he goes out with his friends without you or if he texts his best girl friend a lot. You know that he wouldn’t do anything to hurt you, and you have complete faith in this.

9. Just the touch of his hands provides you with comfort.

When you are hurting or are upset, just the small touch of his hand or the small smile he gives you, makes you immediately feel better. It doesn’t matter what he does, but just his presence gives you great comfort and makes you feel like you’re at home.

10. You laugh at everything he says.

It doesn’t matter how bad his jokes are or how terrible his sense of humor is. If you think he’s funny and can make you smile in dark times, you are falling for him.

11. You find joy in the little things.

Spending a lazy Sunday afternoon means the world to you. Seeing him smile makes you beam with energy. Having him give you hug after a hard day, makes your week. You find beauty and happiness in every little thing that he does. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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