This Is How You Learn The Hard Way, Based On Your Zodiac

Allegra Messina


(March 21st to April 19th)

You’ll learn the hard way thinking you have to rely on yourself for everything. There is only so much someone can handle and at your pace and what you take on eventually you will hit rock bottom.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You’ll learn the hard way by not being true to your heart whether it’s in your career or love life. You want to follow the logic but that’s never going to make you as happy as if you were to follow your heart and take a chance on the person or thing that deserves it.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You’ll learn the hard way by loving someone who doesn’t love you back solely because you didn’t recognize or see the value when someone loved you.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You’ll learn the hard way by losing yourself trying to appease others.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You’ll learn the hard way about self-love when you get your heart broken by someone you care for. What you’ll realize is as selfless as you are and as much as you give sometimes you have to give a little to yourself first. Because when a relationship ends and you think it’s your loss, what you learn from that is the relationship that needs improving is the one you have with yourself.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You’ll learn the hard way by losing important relationships. When you only look for what you can gain from relationships rather than building the relationship people will see right through that.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You’ll learn the hard way when something really difficult happens in your life it is there your true friends will rise to the occasion. Remember who stood by you during that time.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You’ll learn the hard way by secluding yourself from those you love. While you have a big heart you also protect the shit out of it and fear showing emotions and any sign of vulnerability.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You learn the hard way when someone really close to you betrays you and it’s going to hurt like hell because this person, you didn’t think you even had to suspect. But all of this builds character and everyone’s true colors does come out.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You’ll learn the hard way by getting rejected. As someone who isn’t used to that sort of thing, it’s gonna feel like a major blow to you but you learn to deal with it.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You’ll learn the hard way when someone says I love you and you don’t say it back and you come close to losing them. It’s good to protect yourself and not want to be emotional but sometimes you have to be or you’ll lose someone you care for.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You learn the hard way when you don’t give your heart to someone who deserves a chance. You complain about always getting hurt but when what could be the right love comes along, you don’t see it because you are always focused on the wrong people. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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