Take A Chance On Her If She’s Anything Like This

God & Man

If she’s kept you smiling since day one, take a chance on her.

If she makes you want to be a better man, take a chance on her.

If somehow you guys always find your way back to each other, take a chance on her.

If she hates the people who hurt you, take a chance on her.

If she defends you, protects you, and looks out for your best interest, take a chance on her.

If she makes you question the choices you’ve made because you want to make her proud, take a chance on her.

If she forgives you for your mistakes and helps you to learn from them, take on a chance on her

If the thought of hurting her, upsetting her, letting her down keeps you up at night, take a chance on her.

If she’s someone your mom already likes, take a chance on her.

If she motivates you and supports your goals and dreams, take a chance on her.

If you find yourself lost in thought throughout your busy day, thinking of her, take a chance on her.

If she scares you a little bit, take a chance on her.

If she’s just been there the whole time, loyalty like that is hard to find, take that chance.

If she’s different, authentic and not like the girls you usually go for, take a chance on her.

Maybe your problem is you are going for the wrong ones when the right one is standing a foot in front of you.

If she has a heart of gold, know girls like that are hard to find so take a chance on her.

If she’s the one you turn to when things go wrong and she’s your rock, take a chance on her.

If you’ve gone back and forth thinking it could be a mistake but you can’t get your mind off of taking a chance, go for it.

If she cares about you and isn’t afraid to show it, take a chance on her.

If she says I love you and doesn’t need to hear it back, know how real and honest that is and there probably isn’t anyone you’ll meet who will love you more selflessly than that. Take a chance.

If you look at her and see a future and she helps you to be grateful for the past you used to regret, take a chance on her.

If you look at her and can see the type of mother she’d be and you’d be proud standing by her, take a chance on her.

Even if you’re scared.

Even if it might not be right.

Even if you’ve only ever been just friends.

Even if she’s just a hookup you want to be more, take a chance on her.

I know what it’s like to be afraid to take a chance on someone. I know what it’s like to fear losing someone close to you. I know how scary it is to take that first step and make that move which could very well lead to an awkward rejection.

But it’s a disservice to both of you if you know you both care a little and are too afraid to do anything about it.

So take a chance because sometimes the things we fear most are exactly what we need.

And sometimes the people we deserve most are the ones who have been there the whole time. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

Writer living in Hoboken, NJ with my 2 dogs.

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