The 21 Best ‘What a Girl Wants’ Quotes to Celebrate the Film’s 21st Anniversary

With an irresistible blend of quirky humor and heartwarming relationships — plus an inspiring message about self-discovery at its core— What a Girl Wants became a cultural phenomenon in the early aughts, capturing the hearts of viewers worldwide. The British backdrop and a lovable Amanda Bynes — who jumps on a plane on a whim to find the father she never met — didn’t hurt this movie’s success either. So, on the 21st anniversary of this modern classic rom-com, let’s look back on our 21 favorite quotes from the movie. 

“You know, sometimes it’s easier to be mad at the people you trust. Because you expect more from them.” – Daphne Reynolds

“You don’t have to fit in to belong.” – Henry Dashwood

“Why don’t you put a big ‘L’ on your forehead? For ‘loser’!” – Glynnis Payne

“Destiny is what you make of it, so make it count.” – Daphne Reynolds

“The truth is, sometimes I think I was born in the wrong century.” – Daphne Reynolds

“Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.” – Daphne Reynolds

“Why are you so nice to me?” – Daphne Reynolds; “Because you’re so nice to me.” – Ian Wallace

“Who wants to fit in when you can stand out?” – Daphne Reynolds

“I’d rather have a life of ‘oh wells’ than a life of ‘what ifs’.” – Daphne Reynolds

“Just because you’re related by blood doesn’t mean you’re family.” – Libby Reynolds

“You’ve got to take chances, sweetheart, ’cause if you don’t, you’ll regret it.” – Jocelyn Dashwood

“You’re a living work of art. Drink it in.” – Ian Wallace

“Being yourself is never a trend.” – Daphne Reynolds

“You can’t live your life for other people. You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.” – Jocelyn Dashwood

“You’re not like anyone I’ve ever met. You’re different. And I mean that in a good way.” – Ian Wallace

“It’s not about what you wear, it’s about what you believe.” – Henry Dashwood

“Maybe it’s not about finding the perfect moment, maybe it’s about creating it.” – Daphne Reynolds

“You don’t find love, it finds you. It’s got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what’s written in the stars.” – Jocelyn Dashwood

“Don’t ever let anyone steal your spirit, because your spirit is what makes you special.” – Henry Dashwood