23 Men On Which (Non-Physical) Trait They Find Most Attractive In Women

1. “A literal Netflix-and-chill kind of person. She doesn’t feel the need to go out every Friday night, and we can just hang on the couch with The Walking Dead.”

— Matt, 22

2. “If she makes the first move, I’m instantly attracted. Yes please.”

— Gabe, 26

3. “If she has a really f*cked up sense of humor, I’m sold. It’s also kind of necessary, because that’s what I have, and if I can’t joke about death or something without her getting weirded out, we’re probably not going to work.”

— Colton, 24

4.“Just being non-judgmental. Giving people the benefit of the doubt and acting with compassion. None of this “fool me once and you’re dead to me” bullsh*t that’s everywhere these days.”

— Derek, 31

5. “I’m just a goofy guy looking for a goofy girl. Be weird with me.”

— Corey, 21

6.“I love it when a woman isn’t afraid to be intelligent. Don’t let me win an argument because you’re worried you’ll intimidate me. There’s literally nothing hotter than a woman who won’t think twice about having a heated, educated debate with me. The perfect date: we stimulate each other’s minds, and then… stimulate other things.”

— Scott, 27

7. “I’ve always been attracted to women who can speak multiple languages. Maybe it’s because I had a massive crush on Shakira when I was a kid, but all of my exes speak at least 2 languages.”

— Andre, 23

8. “Confidence, without a doubt. I guess that’s kind of a physical attribute, because it’s all about the way she carries herself, but I find a woman who’s completely comfortable in her own skin to be incredibly sexy.”

— Colin, 28

9. “A positive attitude. I need someone that balances me out and always makes me want to be better.”

— Seth, 25

10. “I seriously love it when a girl I’m on a date with starts talking about something she’s really passionate for. It doesn’t even have to be something that I’m passionate about too, I just love the look girls get in their eyes when they’re really into what they’re talking about. It’s f*cking hot.”

— Aaron, 22

11. “Sharp wit. The kind that keeps me on my toes whenever we’re talking.”

— Justin, 26

12. “I love it when she’s really great with kids. I know that I want a big family, so seeing my girlfriend completely at ease around kids is very attractive. It gives me a little flash of what our future could be like, and that’s really exciting for me.”

— Hank, 24

13. “The most attractive trait? Mutual honesty and respect for each other’s lives. That’s it.”

— Jeremy, 37

14. “I love girls who are spontaneous. I don’t really like planning trips way in advance, so when I meet a girl who’s totally down to drop everything and go on a weekend trip somewhere cool, I’m smitten.”

— Francis, 26

15. “I’m a personal trainer, so I’m always looking for someone who values fitness as much as I do. It’s really not even about how spectacular her body is, but that we have similar lifestyles.”

— Tyler, 29

16. “A really contagious laugh. That’s my kryptonite.”

— Blake, 23

17. “Geekiness, and not the trendy kind that wears a Star Wars t-shirt because it’s “vintage,” but the kind that will talk for hours about which Doctor is best and will watch the Season 2 finale of Sherlock with me over and over again. ”

— Henry, 24

18. “I can’t resist a girl who’s not afraid to get dirty, go camping, hike some forgotten trail, roll in the hay, wait what were we talking about?”

— Mark, 21

19. “When a girl has life ambitions outside of being in a relationship, and isn’t apologetic about putting a relationship second, because that’s what I’m doing too.”

— Shaun, 26

20. “When she knows her way around a kitchen. I know it sounds sexist, but I can’t help it. If you’re a good cook, I’ll marry you on the spot.”

— Greg, 22

21. “If I’m on a date and she’s super nice to the server, I’m immediately a little bit turned on. I worked as a server for three years, so I might be a little hyper-sensitive, but if I see her snap her fingers or say something insensitive, there will definitely not be a second date. If they treat the server like an actual human being? I already have a semi.”

— Andy, 25

22. “I like women that I can have any kind of conversation with. One second we can be debating the current political climate, and the next second we can just as easily talk about a dumb but hilarious meme I saw on the Internet. That’s the dream.”

— Patrick, 26

23. “Kindness. Caring for others less fortunate than herself. Just a being a good person, I guess.”

— Nick, 30