When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, you have two choices. You can either hold onto the hope he likes you back and continue throwing yourself at him — or you can raise your standards and realize you’re worth so much more than someone inconsistent.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, you shouldn’t chalk it up to him sending mixed signals. The signal is pretty clear. He doesn’t care about hurting your feelings. He doesn’t care about making you wait. He doesn’t care about anyone except himself. You don’t have to analyze the looks he gives you or the compliments he makes — because they’re meaningless when he follows them up by ghosting you for a week straight.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, you shouldn’t take it as a good sign. You shouldn’t automatically assume he likes you as much as you like him. Sure, maybe he like you a little bit, but you should hold out for someone who likes you enough to answer your texts, to follow through on plans, to pay attention to you each and every day, not just the days when he feels like it.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, you shouldn’t assume his treatment is the best you’re going to get. You shouldn’t get excited on the days when he actually acknowledges your existence and let it roll off your back when he goes MIA for weeks at a time. You shouldn’t tolerate the unfair way he treats you, especially when you’ve made a habit out of treating him as best as you know how.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next, don’t lose track of how much he hurt you. How many times have you sworn you were finished with him, and then changed your mind the second he texted you something cute? Don’t let that keep happening. Don’t let him sweet talk you into forgiveness. Don’t let your excitement over a new text make you forget about how miserable you were the last few weeks when he wasn’t sending any texts.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, don’t blame yourself. Don’t wonder whether you did something wrong. His actions are a reflection of him, not you. Stop for a second to think what his behavior really says about him. It says he’s unreliable. It says he’s inconsistent. It says he’s immature. It says he’s unable to provide you with what you want.
When he flirts with you one day and ignores you the next day, you should put him in his place. You shouldn’t let him walk in and out of your life whenever he pleases. You shouldn’t let him take advantage of your soft heart. You should make it clear you aren’t going to let him get away with his bullshit. You should let him know you have standards — and if he can’t meet those standards, he’s going to lose his chance with you.