This Is What Will Make Him Lose Interest In You Lightning Fast, Based On His Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

Chasing after him.

If you triple text him and bail on your friends whenever he asks you to hang out, then he’s going to get bored of you. He wants someone with a life of her own. Someone that he has to chase.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

Playing hard to get. 

He’s stubborn, so if you refuse to send the first text, you two are never going to talk. And if he assumes you aren’t interested, he’s going to lose interest too.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

Looking sloppy. 

Yeah, it’s superficial, but if he always sees you with knots in your hair and stains on your clothes, then he’s going to lose interest. He wants to see you at your best — at least when it’s early on in the relationship and he’s still getting to know you.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

Trying to make him jealous.

If he sees you kissing someone else, he isn’t going to push himself to ask you out before that other guy snatches you up. He’s going to accept defeat and look for someone new who hasn’t been playing the field, someone who’s looking for a serious commitment.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

Talking too much.

He wants to have an actual conversation with you, and not just listen while you go on about your life. He isn’t interested in girls that are obsessed with themselves. He expects give-and-take.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd


He tries to enjoy life as much as he can. He doesn’t want to go on a date with a girl who’s always complaining about how frizzy her hair is and how horrible the food tastes and how slow the waiter is walking.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

Being indecisive.

He doesn’t want a girl who claims she doesn’t care where they go out to eat. He wants someone who knows what she wants and tells him directly. Someone who can make a decision. He isn’t interested in guessing games.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

Only flirting over text.

He doesn’t want someone to like all his Instagram photos and text him about the weather. He wants someone to hold close, to hug, to kiss — and yes, someone to sleep with.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

Rushing him.

He needs time to get used to the idea of commitment. He doesn’t want you to pressure him into calling you his girlfriend or his wife. He prefers to take things slow. So if you push him too hard, he’s going to run.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

Dumbing yourself down.

He doesn’t want to date someone who can’t hold an adult conversation. He wants to date someone with a mind of her own, someone who has strong thoughts and opinions.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th


Don’t lie about liking the same bands as him. Don’t lie about wanting something casual when you really want a relationship. Don’t lie to him about anything at all — because once he finds out the truth, he’ll be gone.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

Being too serious.

He wants someone he can joke around with, someone who can handle light teasing. So if you get mad whenever he innocently pokes fun at you or the people around you, then it isn’t going to work out. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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