Aries: March 21st – April 19th
Before you can find true love, you need to get all of the craziness out of your system. Get your own apartment, travel overseas, and sleep with total strangers, so that you’ll be ready to settle down when the time comes. If you don’t live it up now, then you’re going to regret it and end up resenting your future partner. So make the most of your single life.
Taurus: April 20th – May 20th
Before you can find true love, you need to learn to be happy with the present. Stop dwelling on everything that went wrong in the past and wondering what’s in store for you in the future. Now is all that matters, so live in the moment. If you can’t learn how to do this, then you’re going to have trouble finding someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Gemini: May 21st – June 20th
Before you can find true love, you need to get to know yourself better. What do you like? What do you want? What do you need? You’re always changing your mind, which makes you feel like a mystery, even to yourself–and that’s not a good thing. Before you get to know someone else inside and out, you need to learn more about yourself.
Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd
Before you can find love, you need to learn how to deal with confrontation. I know you love your alone time. I know you need to get away every once in a while in order to function properly. But when you’re in a relationship, you won’t always have time to run away. You need to learn to deal with the issues that are bothering you instead of hiding yourself away and hoping that the problem disappears.
Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd
Before you can find love, you need to learn how to work alongside others. You’re a born leader, but that doesn’t mean you’re always going to be in charge. A relationship requires teamwork, so if you can’t even let your friends pick the restaurant or your co-workers help you out with a project, then you’re going to have a hard time finding someone to be your life partner.
Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd
Before you can find love, you need to get closure with your exes. You have a good memory, which is why you remember all of the little ways people have hurt you in the past. But you can’t dwell on all of their wrongdoings. If you want to find your forever person, then you need to keep your heart and your mind open. Your future partners aren’t guarenteed to make the same mistakes your exes made, so don’t compare the two.
Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd
Before you can find love, you need to build your confidence. You shouldn’t let your fear of being judged keep you from speaking up during conversations. If you have something to say, say it. Become your own person now, so that you don’t turn into a copy of your partner once you start dating. You don’t want to be the person who follows their boyfriend around like a puppy dog at parties, do you?
Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st
Before you can find love, you need to work on your anger issues. Don’t let little things set you off. If you go on a rant whenever your partner comes home late or forgets to do the dishes, then you’re not going to remain in a relationship for long. You need to learn to deal with your emotions in a healthier way.
Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st
Before you can find love, you have to learn to take a deep breath in and relax. Be patient. Love doesn’t form overnight. You need to put in the effort to dress up, take them out on dates, and have meaningful conversations with them. It’s the only way that they’re going to fall for you. There are no shortcuts when it comes to love.
Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th
Before you can find love, you have to learn to think with your heart instead of your head. Your common sense isn’t going to get you far, because most of the rules in the dating world make zero sense. Instead of doing what you think is right, do what feels right. Go after the person that you feel a connection with instead of going after the person that looks best on paper (or on Tinder).
Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th
Before you can find love, you need to stop being so lazy. Get up from the couch and start exercising. Work on toning your body, but not to impress anybody else. Not to look “sexy.” Do it to make yourself proud. Do it to raise your own confidence. The better you feel, the easier it’ll be for you to find love.
Pisces: February 19th – March 20th
Before you can find love, you need to learn to stick up for yourself. And really think about what someone says to you instead of blindly believing them. Otherwise, you’re going to get your heart broken time and time again. You’re too nice, and quite frankly, too gullible. You need to wise up, because not everyone is as sweet as you are.