(March 21st to April 19th)
Someone who challenges them.
Aries love an exciting partner. They’re used to having to drag someone along to all the things they want to do so someone who actually wants to try just as much stuff as they do is intoxicating. They find free spirits who are always up for an adventure to be the sexiest of all.
(April 20th to May 21st)
Someone who feels comfortable.
A Taurus wants nothing more than to find that perfect person to naked Netflix + chill with for the rest of their happily ever after. The problem is that you have to venture out of the house and be vulnerable and put up with other people in order to find that person. They just want to find someone who feels comfortable, who loves and accepts them, and who will make the coziest home they’ll never have to leave again.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
Someone who lets them be exciting.
A Gemini wants to be the star of the show. They want to be able to follow their passions and flit around and be spontaneous while knowing someone else is there to catch them when they fall. They genuinely find people who have their shit together sexy. Especially if that person doesn’t mind an occasional trip on the hot mess express.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
Someone who lets them love deeply.
Taylor Swift has a line all Cancers can relate to: “loving you was like driving a brand new Maserati down a dead end street.” Cancers are built for love and they frequently have to cut themselves down to fit into someone else’s idea of a relationship. What’s sexy to them is someone who trust them enough to let them go full throttle and just be themselves.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
Someone who adores them.
Leos love to be admired and this doesn’t change when it comes to sex. The biggest predictor of a Leo finding someone sexy, is whether *that person* finds the Leo sexy (and it doesn’t hurt to express this interest in a forward, aggressive way). It may seem shallow, but the heart wants what the heart wants.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
Someone who lets them take control.
All Virgos are alphas. They don’t want a weak partner, but they also don’t want to compete to see who’s top dog. They find someone sexy when they admire a Virgo’s ability to have it all together and trust their decision making ability enough to go with the flow. Let a Virgo lead, and they’ll let you do a lot more than that…
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
Someone who compliments them.
Libras prize their relationships above all else, so knowing that they please their partner honestly puts them in the mood. The more compliments you give them, the more loved they will feel and the more free they will feel to be their sexiest, most confident self.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
Someone who submits to them.
This isn’t as kinky as it sounds, but a Scorpio is dying for someone to let them be dominant. It’s not about rough sex or anything, just someone loving and accepting a Scorpio for the way that they are and “speaking their language” for a moment so that they can feel comfortable enough to open up. Scorpios are always trying to fit into a mold that isn’t meant for them, let them just be themselves for a moment and you’ll become their favorite person ever.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
Someone who makes them laugh.
Sagittarians love fun, and they get worried that a committed relationship will mean the end of this. They need someone to show them that commitment can be sexy, that sex is never more fun than when you have a partner in crime to experiment with.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
Someone they want to show off.
Capricorns get off on the idea of being a power couple. They want to be the duo everyone else notices and is jealous of. If you can put on a dapper outfit and go out for fancy drinks with them somewhere, they’ll feel like they’re in a movie they’ve always wanted to be in. They won’t be able to wait to rush home and have some private time.
(January 21st to February 18th)
Someone who stimulates their mind.
Aquarians can be a bit snobby about their intellect, but it’s genuinely the way to their heart (or at least their pants). Stroke their ego and ask them about an esoteric topic they’re interested in and make sure to add your own informed opinion as well.
(February 19th to March 20th)
Someone who inspires daydreams.
The test of a good lover for a Pisces is whether or not they spend the next few days dreaming about hooking up with them again. They measure good sex and good love in little moments that connect their mind, body, and heart. They want someone who will wax a little poetic the next day and remind them about the dirty stuff they’ve been up to together.