23 Men Reveal The Unique Things That Instantly Turn Them Off A Woman (Even If She’s SUPER Hot)

20. Can’t small talk

Inability to keep a good conversation going. I legit asked a girl that I matched on tinder once “what blows your mind when you learn more about it?” And she goes “idk” that’s no life I’d ever wanna live

— OhHiSpoons

21. Dank smells

About the only instant turn off that I can’t get over is smell. Automatic. Doesn’t matter how hot you are, if you smell nasty, nothing is happening for me.

— Mehcu

22. Being spiritual

The first sign of a woman being into any pseudo-science horse shit I immediately check out. Nothing screams instability more than a grown-ass woman who truly believes in astrology, anti-vaccine, alternative medicine, psychic mediums, crystals having magic fucking healing powers, etc.

— gookish

23. Too many piercings

Too many piercings. I guess I could live with one on the belly button, or a small one on the nose or something – but big hoops/rings and piercings in … other places (nipples, vag) make me cringe.


Brittany Cox

Ontario real estate specialist. I write relationship advice, #GuysInsight, sex, and snark.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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