23 Men Reveal The Unique Things That Instantly Turn Them Off A Woman (Even If She’s SUPER Hot)

11. Discussing other dudes’ dicks

Talking about another man’s penis=no more interaction with my penis.

— BeigePhD

12. Gives bad head

A toothy BJ.

— redmeansdistortion

13. Girls who smoke

Smokers, I can’t stand the smell of cigarettes. Same goes for weed, nothing against people that smoke, but I personally don’t enjoy that smell either.

— drummybear67

14. Playing games

Games and relationship tests. Specifically, purposefully withholding sex as a test of relationship strength. In my mind, there’s no clearer way for you to tell me you don’t trust me or care about me, and I don’t have time for that.

Also, any sort of “I thought you would fight for me!” breakup test.

— TexasWithADollarsign

15. Talking “extra” for no reason

Talking extra for no reason.

“I want to do this position with you”


“I want to do this position with you, it was my favorite one to do with an ex cause it hit the spot just right”


— raiden_the_conquerer

16. Being shy in bed

Shyness in bed. Where they proceed to just lay there and want to make you have sex with them rather then them do any work at all. It may be called star fishing but ive always called them logs.

— markoshino

Brittany Cox

Ontario real estate specialist. I write relationship advice, #GuysInsight, sex, and snark.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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