23 Men Reveal The Unique Things That Instantly Turn Them Off A Woman (Even If She’s SUPER Hot)

8. Being cruel

Cruelty to anything is a turn off for me. I find that some women up their nose at kids, I understand not wanting to have them but jesus they asked you how you were. Reply to it! It’s just a kid!

— HoldOnOneSecond

9. Being proud of being stupid

Women ok with being stupid. I’m not saying you have to be a genius, but I have a thirst to learn things. I know some people who are content with just not knowing and it drives me up the wall.

— Iliketrainschoo_choo

10. Bad smilies

Gummy smiles. I can’t stand looking at that shit.

— garypip

Brittany Cox

Ontario real estate specialist. I write relationship advice, #GuysInsight, sex, and snark.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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