23 Men Reveal The Unique Things That Instantly Turn Them Off A Woman (Even If She’s SUPER Hot)

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1. Uninformed Pretentiousness

Your existence doesn’t make you better than everyone else.

It’s funny because Informed Pretentiousness is really sexy to me. I love a knowledgeable girl who is passionate about her interests. Met a girl recently who knew more about cheese than I knew existed. She was telling me why pre-shredded cheese is so bad, and I was swooning.

— Cabrillis

2. Too much makeup

Caked on makeup and large fake nails.

— AlbinoHessian

3. Being “weak and helpless”

Acting like being feminine is the same as being weak and helpless.

— le_fez

4. Eating me (literally)

I was making out with a girl once about to do the deed and out of god damn no where she decides to bite my lip so hard that it tore the webbing behind my lip and it started bleeding. I’m all for playful biting, but this was too much too fast and it killed my boner.

— Rogue_Titus

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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