22 Non-Sexual Skills That Predict How Good In Bed You Are


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1. Good at massage

2. Knot tying

3. Magic tricks

4. Empathy

5. Knowing how to pet a cat. Cats, like people, are pretty picky about how they like to be touched!

6. Dancing

7. Power cleans

8. Piano playing

9. Ability to eat a banana in one mouthful

10. The ability to listen and to actually pay attention

11. Being able to cook well or to dance well

12. Being able to do something that requires fine motor skills, like sculpting

13. Hula hooping

14. Musicians. They have rhythm and are generally are quite skilled in fine motor skills involving either their tongue or hands

15. Tying a knot in the stem of a cherry with one’s tongue

16. Welding

17. Being a hard worker and determined

18. Know how to arch their lower back

19. Being considerate

20. Someone who plays a stringed instrument or brass instrument is usually good

21. They are a drummer. The rhythm!

22. They’re always smiling TC mark

Brittany Cox

Ontario real estate specialist. I write relationship advice, #GuysInsight, sex, and snark.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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