This flowchart presents a pretty excellent strategy for having a reasonable, rational discussion (instead of one party ‘lecturing’ or ‘giving a sermon’ to the other). But perhaps it is mere wishful thinking, this diagram; perhaps reasonable discussion is altogether impossible (esp. on the internet), and we only hope in vain to one day live in a world where people are ready and willing to, you know, talk it out reasonably.
Years of outbreaks and scarring from Hidradenitis Suppurativa can make you self-conscious. But, this skin condition is treatable and not your fault. Treatment can greatly improve your emotional and physical well-being.