7. Don’t be a naggy bitch.

I can tell you why most men don’t want to commit or have a fear of committing is because they feel like the party will be over, and they will become their parents with a boring, unfulfilling life. Let them have time to hang out with their guy friends away from you, don’t whine about every little thing either and make sure you pick your battles. If you are a whiny bitch, I can tell you why you’re not with anyone and that’s because you are annoying and no one wants to deal with you and your divaness. A guy wants a girl who he can spend a lot of time with and not get tired of. If you are nagging him about things, he’s going to run away from you so fast you won’t even know how it happened or where you went wrong. Let them have their life with their friends, their life with you, and also mix the two… the world doesn’t revolve around you and what you want. So listen to me now and don’t ruin it for yourself.

8. Laugh at his jokes.

This one is pretty self explanatory, but every guy thinks that one of the sexiest things that a girl can do, is laugh at his jokes and understand his sense of humor. Chances are, if you want to be with him you probably get his sense of humor anyway because that’s usually part of their charming ways that they lure you in.

9. Make him wait.

So you really like him and he turns you on so much? Wait it out. Let me tell you something about males, they LOVE to have sex and will try to have sex with you but in their brain they are saying, “Don’t do it, you’re going to ruin it!” Of course they don’t tell you this, but it’s so true! Your best bet is to only do it when you feel like there is an emotional connection or make a SMALL list of stipulations. For instance, I made the non-committer introduce me to his parents first. Do not make it seem like you’re trying to be high maintenance and if he tries something just say, “You turn me on so bad, but I’m not ready for that yet.” DO NOT shut him down, make him feel unwanted, or not sexy.