Let This New Year Be A New Chapter For You

Use your losses to gain more love for yourself.

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This year has been rough on you. You’ve loved and you have lost people, you are left with sadness in your eyes and sorrow in your heart. This year has given you so much pain, and you are a warrior that fought the unending battles you were left with every single day.

This year has given you happiness, you may not see it as much, but it came as bits and pieces to remind you that life is not always full of dark skies and heavy rain. This year is filled with many unexpected things and you are a survivor for moving onto the next one.

Let this new year be a new chapter for you. Use your losses to gain more love for yourself. Use the pain that you were left with to learn from the mistakes that have happened. Fix what they broke not for the next person but for yourself. Be patient and remember that this life is a mixture of many seasons. Take courage to keep moving forward without taking a step back.

Give yourself credit for you have accomplished so much. Be better for you, and remember that life is not always full of dark skies and heavy rain, soon the rainbow will come and the skies will brighten up again. Then you’ll realize that these things happened for a reason.

Like every chapter in our lives, we are bound to feel pain, sorrow, loss, and happiness. Because in every pain there’s a lesson to be learned. In every sorrow and loss, there’s another reason to heal yourself and be better. In every happiness, there’s another reason to be grateful for you have been given what you truly deserve.

Let this be a new chapter for you, leave the pain behind. Learn to move forward without taking a step back. Learn that things happened to make you stronger than you were before. Let this be a new chapter of happiness and love. A love that only you can provide. Because you have fought so many battles for the ones you have lost my love, it is time to fight battles for yourself. You deserve you and no one else, you are extraordinary. You have survived this year and you are still fighting to this day. I adore you, so let this be a new chapter for you love because you have accomplished so much. Thought Catalog Logo Mark