The Most Annoying Thing You Do When You’re In Love, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Gemini, if you keep pushing people away in order to maintain your independence, you'll wind up lonely and alone.
By Andrea Davis
Aries
(March 21st to April 19th)
An Aries takes pride in being strong and independent, without a man or relationship to feel whole. They push people away because they feel as if they’re content being on their own. They may even miss out on someone who is great because they’re too busy being independent. Their argument is, life is perfectly fine just as it is, so why add a relationship to the mix? But, sometimes it’s okay to be vulnerable and wear your heart on your sleeve, Aries. If you’re ending things before they have the chance to start, you’re only cheating yourself in the long run. Open up, but stay guarded when you need to. You can have the best of both worlds if you wish to.
Taurus
(April 20th to May 21st)
As a Taurus, you might seem to be a bit clingy in the beginning stages of a relationship. You want to know that you’re desired and needed. And you want your partner to make that their priority to show you those feelings at all times. If you don’t receive the love and affection you wish to attain, you go a bit postal. Taurus, the right person will show you how special you are, without having to use any words. If someone doesn’t make you feel special every single day, they aren’t the right person for you. If you cling onto the wrong one so easily, how will you ever find the right one?
Gemini
(May 22nd to June 21st)
As a Gemini, you appreciate your independence. You are extremely self-sufficient and you hate the idea of needing to rely on anyone to get by in life. In love, you tend to get bored very easily and end things before they have a chance to blossom. You are content being alone, so why bother? Gemini, if you keep pushing people away in order to maintain your independence, you’ll wind up lonely and alone. You can keep your independent nature while still allowing love into your life. There is a balance, and you can find that balance if you allow yourself to do so.
Cancer
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
As a Cancer, your sensitivity can lead you to some problems in relationships and dating. You know this. It’s no secret. You find it tough not to take everything that anyone says super seriously. They may make a small comment or say something that comes off a bit odd. And meanwhile you know you shouldn’t worry and question it so much, you can’t help yourself but do so. Your insecurities take over and you’re suddenly questioning every little detail of every single word that’s ever been said. Relax, Cancer. If you keep taking things so personally, you’ll miss out on all the fun. Relationships should be a happy, exciting experience. So, embrace it.
Leo
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
As a Leo, you are Queen bee. You expect to be treated as the queen that you are, and won’t settle for anything less than just that. You won’t take no for an answer because you deserve the world. Everything revolves around you, and your desires. But, if that mentality sticks around, you’re more than likely to wind up alone, Leo. Not everything is always about you. And while you deserve to be treated like a queen, you are only human. You must express the same kindness and gratitude to others as they give to you. It’s not a one-way street. Remember that, Leo. Get off your high horse and see the reality.
Virgo
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
As a Virgo, you have a tendency to go with the flow, making it hard to have your voice heard. You are quiet, especially in a relationship, and you have a difficult time expressing your needs to your partner. When in love, you entirely surrender yourself to your lover. You let them make all the decisions, and basically, take control of the whole relationship. You’re just along for the ride. You keep quiet even if you are unhappy or unsatisfied with something major. Virgo, you can still be your quiet, introverted self but have a voice. In a relationship, communication is key. Use your voice, you were given one for a reason.
Libra
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
As a Libra, your mood swings can become intense and overbearing at times. In a relationship, your mood changes can be a huge factor. One moment you’re high, the next you’re low. And your partner can’t figure out how to wade through those highs and lows without getting washed to the shore. It’s time to learn how to control those mood swings, Libra. You can feel both happy and sad emotions and have it be normal. You don’t have to wallow in pity one moment and dance with happiness the next. There is such thing as a balance between the two, and you are very capable of finding it as long as you try to.
Scorpio
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
As a Scorpio, you have a track record and tendency to get really jealous of your partner for the smallest things. When in a relationship, you give everything you have and more, and when you fall, you fall hard. You make your lover the center of your world, and you want to spend every waking moment with them. This usually means that you tend to get a bit jealous when they want to hang out with other people. You become a green-eyed monster, and your jealous nature comes out in full force. Scorpio, you need to let your partner breathe, and live their own life in order to make this relationship last. You cannot suffocate them and expect them to stick around.
Sagittarius
(November 23rd to December 21st)
As a Sagittarius, your constant itch for adventure and new experiences may just be your greatest downfall in love. You’re always on the go, wanting the next best thing. This makes it extremely hard to live in the moment fully. You’re always wanting to know what comes next, and are always one step ahead of everyone else. That constant itch for adventure is in dire need of constant attention and affection. Once you find things becoming too much of a routine for your liking, you run for the hills. Routine is your worst enemy. It bores the crap out of you.
Capricorn
(December 22nd to January 20th)
As a Capricorn, you come across as being cool, calm, and casual. You don’t like opening up to others and it takes a lot for you to connect with people on a deeper level. But, when you’re in love, that all changes. Your biggest downfall is that you open up immediately, sharing too much too soon. You lay everything out on the table and expect no reaction.
Aquarius
(January 21st to February 18th)
An Aquarius tends to come off too strong at first in a relationship. They throw themselves (physically and mentally) at the first decent person they meet, and it can be overwhelming. You want to love and be loved so badly, and that’s perfectly OK. But, don’t settle for anyone because you’re bored or alone. You will find the right person when they’re meant to come into your life. You won’t need to throw yourself at them. They will instantly be drawn to you.
Pisces
(February 19th to March 20th)
As a Pisces, you are quite the over-thinker. In love, you tend to overreact and analyze every single thing that your partner says or does. It drives you crazy. You can’t seem to kick your negative thoughts, and your brain goes into overdrive. This tends to scare away your partner because they become too overwhelmed too soon. Pisces, most of the time, 100% of the time, overthinking will kill a situation. And, if you finally allow yourself to think rationally, you will see how things will go much smoother and more ideal for your love life.