As a strong, independent and self-sufficient woman, I find an incredible release in becoming passive, in letting someone else make the decisions for me.
I know that I’m allowed to want to just get laid. I know that it’s okay for a woman to want lots of casual sex. I know that nobody in my close circle would mind or judge me for it.
These are all acceptable things to “compromise” upon–not so when you give up something essential inn order to keep someone else happy, unthreatened or trying to meet their needs while ignoring yours.