33 Flirtatious Little Things Men Do When They Want To Date You

Derrick Freske
Derrick Freske

1. They don’t pull apart quickly after they hug you — they linger for as long as they can.

2. They text you back ASAP, even though you’ve been told by others that they’re a horrible texter.

3. They make subtly rude remarks about other men that they think you find attractive.

4. Their pupils dilate the second that they see you.

5. They use your name in conversation as often as they can.

6. They treat you completely different than they treat the other women in their life.

7. They casually slip the fact that they’re single into the conversation.

8. They touch you whenever they can. They brush your shoulder to wipe lint away and they caress your cheek to remove a fallen eyelash.

9. They laugh at your jokes, even if they’re super lame and don’t deserve an actual laugh.

10. They primp as soon as they see you. Once you walk into the room, they throw on Chapstick or smooth back their hair.

11. They ask for your advice, even when it comes to random things that don’t matter all that much. It’s just an excuse to talk to you.

12. They’re extra chivalrous when you’re around. They’ll pull out your chair, hold the door for you, and offer you their jacket — all in the same day.

13. They check you out, even when your outfit isn’t all that revealing or even interesting.

14. They always text first.

15. They sit right next to you. Even if the room is empty, they’ll sit as close to you as humanly possible.

16. The emojis they use the most are hearts and winking faces.

17. They actually wink at you in person.

18. They “casually” ask you tons of questions when you mention another guy, because they want to know if you’re taken.

19. They fidget with their watch, jiggle their leg, or blush whenever you start a conversation with them.

20. They compliment you on the color of your eyes.

21. They do intimate things, like cuddle with you or hold your hand in public.

22. They “like” as many of your social media posts as they can without coming across as creepy.

23. They actually call you up, because they want to hear your voice.

24. They stay late at work, or stay up past their bedtime, just so they can talk to you for a little bit longer.

25. They mirror your body language. When you lean in closer, they lean in closer. And when you smile, they smile.

26. They’re always licking their lips and rubbing their fingers across their lips. That means they’re thinking about kissing you.

27. They rearrange their schedule so they can spend more time with you.

28. They tease you — but in a nice way. In a flirty way. In a way that doesn’t hurt your feelings at all.

29. They remember the minuscule things about you, like your favorite type of soft drink.

30. They are noticeably annoyed when someone else interrupts your one-on-one conversation, because they want to be alone with you.

31. They keep glancing down at your lips, signaling that they want a kiss.

32. They look at you like you’re the most beautiful thing they’ve ever seen.

33. They cross and uncross their legs. You’re making them horny and they’re trying to hide it. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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