Are you a dad? Do you hope to be a dad someday? Do you know a dad? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you probably need to see this video.

Mandy Patinkin — who we’ll see in the upcoming Zach Braff film, Wish I Was Here — gives some perfect fatherly advice that all of us should probably know, but never really take time to think about.

In celebration of the film’s release (July 18th in select theaters, July 25th across the country), here’s a bit of real talk we can all relate to.

This post brought to you by the new film from Focus Features, ‘Wish I Was Here.’ Now playing in select theaters.