Do not tell her to “just get out if it’s really that bad”
Regardless of how it may seem, we don’t make these promises for the sole purpose of breaking them a while down the line. Though in the back of our minds we’re certain that we’ll eventually give in and plaster the metaphors we’ve converted your smile into all over a sheet of paper.
The grief and sadness stay with you. You just get better (Much better. Become a pro, even) at hiding it from other people.