This Is What Matters To Him In Love, Based On His Zodiac Sign

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Aries (March 21st – April 19th)

Aries like to keep things the simple way: at extremes. He will either go along and have sex with a handful of women, or he will devote himself to only one heart. In betweens never occur on his map. This sign is a walking contradiction, so what roams his boat is unlimited freedom of expression (love also) and on the other hand, a relationship that can offer him a roof over his head. And his head for that matter. So, when an Aries man loves, he holds on tight and leaves the Playboy mansion for other Heffner’s out there.

Taurus (April 20th – May 20th)

Although most Taurus men have a lusty appetite for love, what this bull really wants is to find that woman to build his empire with. For him swapping partners is just a process to get to the one he’s been dreaming of since forever, and he won’t be afraid to drop a match in order to find the perfect glove. That might bruise some hearts along the way, but this man will offer coziness, despite the lack of commitment at times.

Gemini (May 21st – June 20th)

This air sign usually blows… like the wind! So if you feel like “forever and a day” is something you’ll find looking at this duality over here, you’re in fo’ trouble, gurl! Gemini avoids commitment by default, he loves his boyish freedom, especially because he thinks of himself not home made for happy endings on a horse, next to a palace. What works best for these boys right here are long distance relationships. Yes, you read that right! And if that is an exotic destination to romance, it might not be a bad idea after all.

Cancer (June 21st – July 22nd)

Crabby, I’m hoooome! This man right here like to receive exactly what he passes on: reaching out for safety, security and love. Arms that wrap around and feel like the word “home” has just reached another level of closeness. The Cancer knows exactly how to make a woman feel safe without choking her with needs, that’s why he rules the zodiac’s fourth house of home  and family. There’s an excitement about this one that screams kids and family from the roots to the crown.

Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)

Celebrating love every day. That’s a statement for Leo’s when they’re in love. When. For this sign, showing how much he loves is what matters to him. They are flamboyant by nature and want to shower you with affection and a bed of roses. He loves madly and wildly, but pride sometimes kills a lot of bricks down the lane. The lion NEEDS to always have eyes on him, and can’t stand it when his partner gets more looks than him. He wants to sit on top of that mountain with you, but that doesn’t mean he’s willing to share it.

Virgo (August 23rd – September 22nd)

The zodiac’s protector, Virgo man needs to protect and nurture, to have  a sense of duty and pride in his life. He wants to serve because that is patched in his astrological duty. This does not mean that he will marry you and build a house for your kids just because he took you a ride with him and didn’t leave you behind. He will share everything he has with you, he will be a hero in your life, but he’s on a mission of his own to contribute to a better work of things out there.

Libra (September 23rd – October 22nd)

I love you. I love you not. I love you. I love you not. Actually, I’m sure now, I love you. But I love you not. Undecided? Libra wants to make sure 100% from a relationship that the person whom he stands next to is THE ONE. But that doesn’t make it an easy process, does it? This man craves his independence to his core, and seeks for finding balance equally in the dorm, creating a contradiction at all times. But that’s just how the Libra is after all. If you think you’re into a ping-pong of decisions and a love affair to remember, you are knocking on the right door.

Scorpio (October 23rd – November 21st)

You’re in for some trouble. This stingy creature over here does not request much at all. He expects his partner to be his best friend, his companion, his trophy, his inspiration, his drama, his peace, his sexual fuel, and a right hand for his empire. Not hard to find at all. He loves a powerful woman that can be a chameleon and that can adapt to any situation, but he needs baby steps to let you in.

Sagittarius (November 22nd – December 21st)

What a walking paradox this man is! Sagittarius is on a search for what may seem impossible to some: finding that one person who will make him feel as free as a bird. But not sure how marriage can do that for you, love. This man likes good stories and expanding his repertoire with thins you would like to tell to your grandchildren.

Capricorn (December 22nd – January 19th)

Also a stubborn sign, the Capricorn wants to build a relationship, brick by brick, that no earthquake or emotional cataclysm can shake. You’re probably wondering what’s the deal with this one over here. He wants a family, but he doesn’t really know if he’s ready for that yet, it’s not something he’s really good at, but if he finds the wisdom and his direction, nothing can shed it. He will be the project manager of his family, bringing confidence to the ones around him.

Aquarius (January 20th – February 18th)

Cuddles and sex. But the other way around. That can work for an Aquarius man. Settle is for the old and weak, and his conquering revolution sets fire to the rain. Maybe he’s not the bets mate for romance and dinner, but he will surely know how to satisfy a woman. Three times a day to keep the doctor away. Or anyone else who might trespass something that he considers to belong to him. Careful, ladies!

Pisces (February 19th – March 20th)

How easy is it to trap a fish in the hook? Difficult to answer. This fish is the kind of man who understand patience, but separates in a very strange manner from love. He can live with you for half a lifetime and still not ask you to marry him. Or he can propose after two days of wild sex on the backseat of his car. Pisces doesn’t have a defined structure, he just swims deep waters, fails at shore, and repeats. Sometimes, somewhere along the way, a beautiful woman will make it and pin him down. But what’s it going to take? Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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