Sabrina Bendory

Blake Lively is having both an amazing month and a horrendous one. The good: her new movie “It Ends With Us” is crushing it at the box office. The bad?

Here is a common relationship misconception: A lot of people believe they will get what they give.

While it’s much easier to blame other people for everything that goes wrong… sometimes it’s us. Sometimes we’re the problem, we’re the toxic ones. Eek. There’s a truth no one really wants to admit. First, it’s OK.

The road to enlightenment is paved with mistakes made along the way… and boy did I make them all!

Sometimes we are our own worst enemies and sabotage our chances of getting what we really want. Relationships, careers, fitness…we can derail ourselves in all areas of life.

Every single girl will at some point find herself asking this question: is there no one out there for me or am I the problem?

I don’t know what the biggest relationship issue was before the invention of smart phones, but in this digital day and age the culprit behind most issues and confusions is texting.

Overthinking in relationships can be a silent destroyer, turning every word, gesture, or delay in response into a potential disaster.

Here’s a situation I’ve definitely found myself in and I’m sure you can relate. You meet someone, something clicks, and suddenly a force takes you over.

Will sleeping with a guy too soon make him instantly lose interest and head for the hills? It is an age-old debate with no concrete answer.

1. Compliments No man will ever come right out and tell you he likes it when you compliment him because it’s a weird thing to ask for, and also not very “manly,” if you will.

This is excerpt from You’re Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self by Sabrina Alexis Bendory, published by Thought Catalog Books (January 2023).