Sabrina Bendory

Overthinking in relationships can be a silent destroyer, turning every word, gesture, or delay in response into a potential disaster.

Here’s a situation I’ve definitely found myself in and I’m sure you can relate. You meet someone, something clicks, and suddenly a force takes you over.

Will sleeping with a guy too soon make him instantly lose interest and head for the hills? It is an age-old debate with no concrete answer.

1. Compliments No man will ever come right out and tell you he likes it when you compliment him because it’s a weird thing to ask for, and also not very “manly,” if you will.

This is excerpt from You’re Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self by Sabrina Alexis Bendory, published by Thought Catalog Books (January 2023).

No one makes it a goal to be single forever. We all want love; we all want a partner to share our lives with.

There is so much misinformation out there on what it takes to be a great girlfriend.

Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.

Scenario 1: You meet a guy, there’s mutual interest, he’s pursuing you, and everything feels great. Just as you start to let your guard down and let him in, he seems to step back and stop pursuing you.

Attachment styles inform how we act in romantic relationships, but these steps can help us overcome them.

If a guy ghosts he’s just not that into you… or is he??