Sabrina Bendory

I spent many, many years chasing damage cases and emotionally unavailable men (and many more years writing about these experiences and creating a career out of it!). I made the same mistake countless others make.

Meeting Eric was like getting hit by a freight train. I didn’t see it coming and it knocked the wind out of me.

I have been writing about relationships for nearly 10 years now (man, that sentence really made me feel old!).

You know that expression the grass is always greener on the other side? Well, it’s so obnoxiously true! When I was single, I desperately craved a steady relationship.

Why are breakups so hard? Every day, in my inbox, on my Facebook and Instagram accounts, and in person from my friends, I am hit with stories of heartbreak and emotional devastation.

I’m going to share a story because I find stories to be the best way to illustrate a point. Years ago, I met a guy who I thought was absolutely perfect for me.

Hi, my name is Sabrina and I’m a recovering Damage Case addict. What’s that you ask? OK let’s back up. I’m going to share a story, my favorite way to illustrate a point.

I think getting over a guy you never actually dated is harder than getting over a breakup. At least with someone you were in a relationship with, you were there.

Ghosting is the new “calling” to break up with someone. Isn’t it funny that calling to break up was once considered bad form?

Here’s what ruins relationships more than anything else. It’s not what you look like, it’s not that you texted him back too quickly or used too many emojis… it’s stressing over the relationship.

I’ve been writing about relationships for nearly a decade now, and my life has shifted dramatically during that time.

If a man doesn’t want you, you should never have to plead your case and convince him otherwise. Storytime!

The one thing I’ve noticed over the years as a relationship writer is that most women have no idea how they’re coming across to men.

Let’s talk about how you might unintentionally be pushing guys away and turning them off.

We’ve all been there. You’re seeing a guy… a guy you really like.

Getting over a situationship can be brutal… and the pain is often worse than the pain following a long-term relationship. But why? Why does it so hard to let go of something you never truly had?

Let’s talk about some habits and mindsets that are sabotaging you from getting the love you want. The path to finding love is filled with misconceptions thanks to movies and mainstream media.

In this day and age where “ghosting” has become an acceptable form of breaking up (maybe not acceptable, let’s go with widely practiced instead), with endless dating apps where a guy can find someone shiny and new with a few…