Sabrina Bendory

You might not want to read this… but you NEED to.

While it’s much easier to blame other people for everything that goes wrong… sometimes it’s us. Sometimes we’re the problem, we’re the toxic ones. Eek. There’s a truth no one really wants to admit. First, it’s OK.

One of the most frustrating and puzzling relationship issues is determining why the guys you want don’t seem to want you. Here is how it usually goes.

Sabrina Bendory is a renowned relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author of Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here, she walks through five glaring signals that you’re trapped in a toxic relationship.

Forget the butterflies and the intensity for a moment. Those feelings fade, no matter who you choose. What matters more is the life you’re building and who you’re building it with. So take a moment and picture your future.

I constantly get asked to share the number one thing I’ve learned about men since I became a relationship coach.

Let’s talk about how you might unintentionally be pushing guys away and turning them off.

Relationship expert Sabrina Alexis Bendory shares the very clear signs he just wants to hit the mattress. Sabrina is the author of the book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible.

We’ve seen Taylor Swift in a lot of relationships over the years.

And just like that, we are hate-watch hostages no more. We are free.The series ended in a big, steaming pile of crap, literally—which, honestly, feels like the perfect metaphor for the entire viewing experience.

What happened to the characters on And Just Like That feels less like development and more like demolition.

And Just Like That… we got more nonsense, more plotlines that go nowhere, and zero self-awareness from characters who were once famous for exactly that.

Confident people don’t play hard to get—they are hard to get, but not because they’re strategically plotting ways to appear unavailable or mysterious.

Who could’ve seen this coming? Oh right—literally everyone. In the latest episode of And Just Like That, Carrie finally sleeps with her aggressively pleasant downstairs neighbor, Duncan—a man who went from cranky loner to golden retriever in record time.

Carrie and Aidan’s relationship spans from the original Sex and the City series to the abomination known as And Just Like That…—and yet, absolutely nothing has changed in 25 years.

We did it, girls. We endured nine episodes of emotional constipation and flannel-clad sulking, but finally, the man-baby has exited the building. Aidan is GONE.

By now, you’ve probably seen the headlines, the TikToks, the memes—Andy Byron, a married CEO, and Kristin Cabot, the head of HR (yes, HR) at Astronomer, were caught having an affair at a Coldplay concert.

I spend a lot of time ranting about And Just Like That and the lazy, soulless, tone-deaf mess it has become.